Is this a "nice guy" thread in disguise? Or... some low budget remake of "The Princess Bride"?

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Well so far.....this guy is proving to be reasonable and respectful.....keep it up guy....

Dude you have it so wrong. A relationship is not a legal contract, you are not buying a girlfriend. Girls are looking for a partner the same as you. There are different rules sure but how about offering friendship without the thought of payback????? Think of a girlfriend like a wild creature that you need to earn her trust. Also women like a little crazy and I think you may have none.

I asked what I actually feel

Girls aren't turning you down, they are saying they are worth more effort and attention. Give the attention because it makes you feel alive and wonderful not because you are annoyed. They are saying I'm a prize to be valued, let them know that you want to rise to the challenge. This is the trill of the case.

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I agree indeed there is some truth.... but how can the ice can be broken someone has to take an indicative I think it should be balanced approach I agree to Estelle both side should have some interest to carry it on but how the start the big big question hangs there

I agree indeed there is some truth.... but how can the ice can be broken someone has to take an indicative I think it should be balanced approach I agree to Estelle both side should have some interest to carry it on but how the start the big big question hangs there

what about visa verse

Forget that balance stuff you have mojo. Girls love to be admired they want to be won over not discounted and have to negotiate down to get a sole mate. A girl will make three types of moves. One they will fall madly in love with a man and want to be yours forever. This is when they can not control there own urges. Two make a move for fear that another girl may win the only reasonable man option around or lastly keep blowing you off until you lift your game. It's all about the game and how you play it.