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Topic: a fruitful advice !!
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Mon 10/06/14 05:51 PM
Edited by falantino on Mon 10/06/14 05:57 PM
i am thinking to turn all my private images to a public images although that caused me a problem in the last time as i had an old friend from here all what matter her was the pictures not the mind of person that she is talking to , she already found them cool but that dont matter me , and sure this turned into a real relationship ended only after 19 days and i dont want to fall in fake persons again who are only searching for fun , or should i complete my way as i do now when i find real friends who are suiting my mind and then i show her/him my private image in a message as i usually do , i don't want to be different from the most people here but i am searching for real friends not the friendships that last for 4 or 5 days , look really i am Confused and i need to sane advice !

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Mon 10/06/14 05:56 PM
If it caused you problems last dont you think that was a sign????

I would leave them....being different worked for me....who wants to be like everyone else.

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Mon 10/06/14 06:00 PM
<==== really not this cute and cuddly. :laughing:

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Mon 10/06/14 06:03 PM
speaking from the position of an 'expert photo poster'...I say get the images out there...tons of pictures...yaks eating popcorn? get it out there! bloody clowns kicking babies? post that shayt! as for all those friendships...that's just a door way to having to help some slob move or the 'can you loan me 20 dollars for a month...'. your doing fine on your own....
waving

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Mon 10/06/14 06:20 PM

If it caused you problems last dont you think that was a sign????

I would leave them....being different worked for me....who wants to be like everyone else.

ok , but when you are online and you are going to meet new people that
become sometimes necessary for some people to see you to trust you more from the first meeting , and i am already put it on my account of fb and tweeter although the most of people their are my friends who i see them everyday or at least from time to time not people who i see them for the first time .....

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Mon 10/06/14 06:25 PM
Edited by falantino on Mon 10/06/14 06:26 PM

<==== really not this cute and cuddly. :laughing:

agree lol

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Mon 10/06/14 06:27 PM


If it caused you problems last dont you think that was a sign????

I would leave them....being different worked for me....who wants to be like everyone else.

ok , but when you are online and you are going to meet new people that
become sometimes necessary for some people to see you to trust you more from the first meeting , and i am already put it on my account of fb and tweeter although the most of people their are my friends who i see them everyday or at least from time to time not people who i see them for the first time .....
If your online presence extends to those other platforms, well I mean how much exposure do you really need for them to believe your real?
I made plenty of friends, plus I meet my partner here and that was with no other online presence....just here...just with my honesty...

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Mon 10/06/14 06:36 PM
most of the guys I meet do not have a picture posted for various reasons but once you get to know them it doesn't really matter it is what is in the heart that counts is the most important. Trust me

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Mon 10/06/14 07:10 PM
Edited by no1phD on Mon 10/06/14 07:10 PM
.. nope... I must just be shallow..
... I have gotten to know some people..
not from the forums... that did not have a picture up... we exchanged emails chit chatted.. got to know each other... now!!..I always have a picture of myself.up.. because I'm so vain..lol... so I'm at a disadvantage.. they can see me but I can't see them...
.... so after a while they give me a picture of themselves... well if they are not.. what I am physically attracted to .... then no amount of sugar and spice... is going to make it nice... I mean I still like the person....
. I just would not date them.... what a azz hole.. I am right..:angel:

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Mon 10/06/14 10:28 PM
Edited by falantino on Mon 10/06/14 10:29 PM

speaking from the position of an 'expert photo poster'...I say get the images out there...tons of pictures...yaks eating popcorn? get it out there! bloody clowns kicking babies? post that shayt! as for all those friendships...that's just a door way to having to help some slob move or the 'can you loan me 20 dollars for a month...'. your doing fine on your own....
waving

sure you are sir lol , here you are :


is that good sir lmao ?
really had you worked before in the army lol :)) ?
20 dollars only lets make it 50 $ lol

really wish i am doing the right , ty stingraycity :))waving

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Mon 10/06/14 10:37 PM

.. nope... I must just be shallow..
... I have gotten to know some people..
not from the forums... that did not have a picture up... we exchanged emails chit chatted.. got to know each other... now!!..I always have a picture of myself.up.. because I'm so vain..lol... so I'm at a disadvantage.. they can see me but I can't see them...
.... so after a while they give me a picture of themselves... well if they are not.. what I am physically attracted to .... then no amount of sugar and spice... is going to make it nice... I mean I still like the person....
. I just would not date them.... what a azz hole.. I am right..:angel:


I bet I'm more vain than you are!...tongue2

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Mon 10/06/14 10:39 PM

speaking from the position of an 'expert photo poster'...I say get the images out there...tons of pictures...yaks eating popcorn? get it out there! bloody clowns kicking babies? post that shayt! as for all those friendships...that's just a door way to having to help some slob move or the 'can you loan me 20 dollars for a month...'. your doing fine on your own....
waving


LOL @ "expert photo poster"....!!

<<<-----Still jelly.

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Mon 10/06/14 10:49 PM



If it caused you problems last dont you think that was a sign????

I would leave them....being different worked for me....who wants to be like everyone else.

ok , but when you are online and you are going to meet new people that
become sometimes necessary for some people to see you to trust you more from the first meeting , and i am already put it on my account of fb and tweeter although the most of people their are my friends who i see them everyday or at least from time to time not people who i see them for the first time .....
If your online presence extends to those other platforms, well I mean how much exposure do you really need for them to believe your real?
I made plenty of friends, plus I meet my partner here and that was with no other online presence....just here...just with my honesty...

i used to speak clearly and with no compliments and tell all things about my life i didnt lie before in any chat and that maybe what make me make some real friends here too ,
i am really happy for you mikey5360 cause you have achieved what are you searching for here and hope you more success and to achieve all things that you want flowerforyou

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Mon 10/06/14 11:06 PM

when i first started on here I didnt have a pic of myself and met someone awesome who, though he had posted a pic, was interested in the inner me, not just my image. We had a wonderful relationship for 2 yrs. I still think of him fondly tho we are not a match.

now tho, i wouldnt want to arrange to meet anyone with no picture first.

i keep a pic of myself in the profile, its just not my main pic. i think thats fair enough. its what I would want from a potential.

great , for me Standard of beauty wasnt and will not be the Outer shape of the person , but from her morality , her Tenderness and her spirit ...... and the last thing is the appearance of her that is my standards ...
hmmmm new idea to make the images public but not to be main one , that could be a good idea , ty klc :)

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Mon 10/06/14 11:23 PM

most of the guys I meet do not have a picture posted for various reasons but once you get to know them it doesn't really matter it is what is in the heart that counts is the most important. Trust me

i believe that because that is already what i am searching for but in my way to find that there are a lot of Obstacles and a lot of pains that sometimes make me hopeless of that , or think in a different way and to change my beliefs too , ty Mdarlene :))flowerforyou

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Mon 10/06/14 11:42 PM
Edited by falantino on Mon 10/06/14 11:44 PM

.. nope... I must just be shallow..
... I have gotten to know some people..
not from the forums... that did not have a picture up... we exchanged emails chit chatted.. got to know each other... now!!..I always have a picture of myself.up.. because I'm so vain..lol... so I'm at a disadvantage.. they can see me but I can't see them...
.... so after a while they give me a picture of themselves... well if they are not.. what I am physically attracted to .... then no amount of sugar and spice... is going to make it nice... I mean I still like the person....
. I just would not date them.... what a azz hole.. I am right..:angel:

excuse me asleep , that is a serious topic and the headline of it was clear so if you have a good advice share it and all people here would benefit from it whoa

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Mon 10/06/14 11:45 PM
I haven't benefited from ONE thing in this whole thread...lol

slaphead

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Mon 10/06/14 11:54 PM
wait!!!!!!!!!!!

What private images????????????????

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Mon 10/06/14 11:59 PM

wait!!!!!!!!!!!

What private images????????????????

private images are those pictures on your profile that no one can see it except you , you can choose it when you make edit to your photos .....

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Tue 10/07/14 12:01 AM


wait!!!!!!!!!!!

What private images????????????????

private images are those pictures on your profile that no one can see it except you , you can choose it when you make edit to your photos .....


That's right! Can you please describe yours?

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