whats the deal with people walking up and saying hey then drop you like a ton of bricks when they find out you dont live there standards? just because my lifestyle is different doesnt mean you get to stick your nose in the air and act like im not a person am i right?

Well zaid klc

You grew up thinking that everyone should get a first place ribbon just for participating, didn't you?

It doesn't work that way in the real world!

Did you make a plan yet, at 18? Gots to have a plan, man.

Wait! You're upset, because people have standards?
Yet, you're expressing a standard of your own.

A touch of irony, and hypocrisy, all in one post

While it is regretful when someone says hi once and then says nothing after. This is apart of the dating game... Think of them like minions that you step over so you can find your princess that is in another castle.

if the shoe doesn't fit, don't wear it.
we all need what feels comfortable.
it doesn't make it right or wrong, it just is.

When did this happen? my whole world is turning upside-down.

You ever read Macbeth?
" If it were done when ’tis done, then ’twere well
It were done quickly."

Dropping you like a ton of bricks tends to dissuade any future complications.

I mean you are here on the forums whining to strangers rather than whining to them, asking them "what's up with that?! Let's talk and fight and argue about it ad nauseum, and I want to judge you as disloyal and mean since you don't want to give me the relationship I want."

Which means dropping you like a ton of bricks is justified as evidenced by the existence of this OP.

Other than that, this:

is arbitrary. People can drop you for any reason at any time.


No. You're not right.
"Sticking their nose in the air and acting like you're not a person" is just indirect communication telling you to go away.

Seems effective....as you seem to have gone away to come here to start this thread and complain.

I love mashed potatoes....

^^^This.

Everyone's standards should be lowered to accommodate yours, so you can have YOUR pick of the litter.


Yeah, no...life doesn't work that way.

If you're talking about OLD it happens often. People send a flirt or "hello" just based on a photo. Then they take the time to read the profile details & don't followup when the other person responds. Because their interests just don't match. Don't take it so seriously. For a real connection you DO need a common background.

If the color fits...wear it..make sense..

That is what happens when you don't say, "I have abs."

(Inside joke.)

I would say "Welcome to the real world!" but I get the feeling from the lack of banter on the part of the starter of this string that he has taken his ball and gone home. Oh well, hopefully some day he will come to the realization that the only way to get everyone to like you is to pay them to.

No worries young man different strokes for different folks. Just be yourself and don't worry about other people think. Concentrate on the ones who you have something in common with and go have some fun. Enjoy your youth and best wishes to you.

How is that not loyal?

everyone gets to decide who they associate with. Just find some folks you have stuff in common with. some folks wont care, some will.

and not wanting to hang with you doesnt have any connection to whether you are a person or not.

*giggling*