Topic: Is it more of a "would you do this person?" | |
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OP is dreamy. I know I know, but we've been over this several times, Stan... |
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Interesting question. let's flip it; how many of us contact someone we wouldn't dream of "doing" in any capacity?
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Sometimes, you can look at a profile pic, and think "oh yeah".
Then you get to know the person through conversation, and the forums. Now you think "OH YEAH"!!! |
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Online *dating* is most assuredly about "Would I do them?" with little or no regard for "Yeah...but would they do YOU?"
It's just one of the many *charms* of the venue. |
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Do people actually look at the photos and answer based on who they would do?
IMO sort of. I think it's mostly just an initial first emotional impression response. Sometimes that's based on attraction, which is ultimately sexual whether realized as such or not, or based on social/emotional desperation. I think most people treat the feature as kind of a "hot or not at the moment depending on my mood and confidence level" list, or as a means to attempt contact without having to accept responsibility for making contact. |
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OP is dreamy. Thanks for making my day/night/whatever. |
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Sometimes, you can look at a profile pic, and think "oh yeah". Then you get to know the person through conversation, and the forums. Now you think "OH YEAH"!!! ^^^This... |
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