A need is something essential—people need food, water, and shelter because these are necessary in order to survive and flourish. Romantic needs enable the flourishing and survival of a profound romantic relationship; they include, for example, shared valuable activities, caring, reciprocity, and nurturing each other. Want is something you would like to have; it is a desire or an inclination for something. Wants are nice to have, and they contribute to the overall quality of the relationship; however, they are not as essential as needs. Romantic wants may refer, for example, to the following activities with the beloved: having sex, going out for dinner, watching TV, walking in the mountains, sharing gossip, and telling jokes.As fulfilling one'spersonal needs is essential for the flourishing of the relationship and hence for the flourishing of the beloved as well, such fulfillment is not egoistic; rather, it is of great value to ensuring the happiness of both. It is an excellent deal, like getting one plus one for the price of one: for the price of fulfilling one's personal needs, you are also helping the relationship to flourish (and typically also fulfilling the partner's needs). Fulfilling one's wants may also be beneficial but not to the extent that fulfilling one's needs is, and it runs the risk of becoming an addictive occupation that disregards profound needs, isolates the "wanter" from the interaction in the relationship, and can become egotistical and selfish.I would like to suggest that romantic needs are mainly concerned with romantic profundity in the long term, whereas romantic wants, or desires, are mainly concerned with romantic intensity in the short term.have anyone to share your desire.....or many more...