There is a difference between hoping for sex or expecting it. I'm hoping for sex too when I really want that woman I refuse to believe that feeling desire is a sin or smth.
But if what you say its true and they have said it out loud and clear that they expected more on the FIRST (goddammit, first!) date.
Then its sad but true, you got lot of morons in the neighbourhood there.

Sex is beautiful thing, pleasant, joy and happiness when doing it with love.

very true

If you care your self! Marriage first before sex even though how much you love the person. If he truly loves you then he could wait for the right time.

Honey its not the timing that's important, its the perfomance. No matter how much you say you love each other, if the perfomance in bed is poor (and what kinda perfomance could you expect from a virgin or worse- 2 virgins?)- it creates resentment towards the future tries of intimacy. If the cause is lack of experience but chemistry is there, you'll overcome the problem. If the cause is lack of chemistry... nothing will fix that i'm afraid. You and your partner don't match. Once there is resentment there will be less and less tries.
And shitty sex life for both man and woman, is the end of marriage.

And then- Congradulations, you didnt bother to find out do you actually match and now you are divorcing, BUT... you must feel really good for keeping that self respect of yours intact.

its depends....of the situation heheh