Topic: How come I am not able to find anyone good looking on here??
BreeGrl310's photo
Wed 09/03/14 06:23 AM
I have been on this site for a few months at least and I keep getting Men looking me up who aren't attractive, are older, not fit, etc. I am 39 yrs old and want to find good looking attractive men to date for a relationship.
I even had men who were as old as 70 yrs old looking me up!!!
They are somehow finding me, even though my age range is from 35 to 39 yrs old.
I feel like I am losing all hope with finding a person my age who wants a relationship on here. Any advice or anyone that doesn't show up who is in my Age Range on here in Florida preferably???
Thanks,
Bree love

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Wed 09/03/14 06:44 AM
waving Hi Bree...Hmm, you have your filters in place, so it's a mystery how/why these older men are able to contact you...That might be a question for the moderators...One thing I would suggest is that you either define your disability or remove it from your profile...The other thing is standard advice, join in the forums...It really is the best way to meet people!:thumbsup:

Good luck!flowerforyou

Faiz1980's photo
Wed 09/03/14 07:00 AM
flowerforyou

U loose when u loose hope, keep up the spirit baby flowers

by the way i a, just one year less then ur filter ;)

BreeGrl310's photo
Wed 09/03/14 07:01 AM
Hi,
Yes. I do have my Filters set. I am still getting older men looking me up every day on here. I don't know why.
Also, I am Disabled. I figured I'd be honest about myself on here. You're saying I should what instead of "Disabled" on my profile?
What part of the Forums do I join to meet new people? Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it.

Bree :thumbsup:

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Wed 09/03/14 07:10 AM
You certainly do not have problem, to me i sees noting stops you or stand as impediment for you noting having your soulmate here or any other place you could think of.Am optimistic is just a matter of time,dont remove anything away from your profile,whoever sees and read what you wrote will ostensibly knows that you are a woman of veracity.I love you veracity and i adore you for that.

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Wed 09/03/14 07:16 AM

waving Hi Bree...Hmm, you have your filters in place, so it's a mystery how/why these older men are able to contact you...That might be a question for the moderators...One thing I would suggest is that you either define your disability or remove it from your profile...The other thing is standard advice, join in the forums...It really is the best way to meet people!:thumbsup:

Good luck!flowerforyou
All things are as difficult as they are rare. Spinoza

no1phD's photo
Wed 09/03/14 07:17 AM
.hmm... ageism... I just can't win..lol
..tears

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Wed 09/03/14 07:22 AM
Edited by Leigh2154 on Wed 09/03/14 07:21 AM

Hi,
Yes. I do have my Filters set. I am still getting older men looking me up every day on here. I don't know why.
Also, I am Disabled. I figured I'd be honest about myself on here. You're saying I should what instead of "Disabled" on my profile?
What part of the Forums do I join to meet new people? Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it.

Bree :thumbsup:


You're welcome!

Click on Community to view all of the forum catagories, click on Recent Posts to view current activity...Jump in anywhere, just jump in!:wink: ...Lots of good people here and some damn good looking men in your age range too!!drool laugh

PS:...I think your honesty is fabulous Bree and will be viewed as a positive:thumbsup: ...I guess my thinking was related to the older guys hitting on you...Thinking they could play hero or something?...IDK....If you are going to keep it in, I would include some minimal info about it in order to save an interested party the uncomfortable/embarrassing situation of asking later..flowerforyou

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Wed 09/03/14 07:32 AM
The filters are set up for what you are looking for, doesn't mean others can't look at your profile. If you're not in stealth mode, people can see who is online by seeing who's online. Doesn't mean you can necessarily block others from viewing your profile, unless you actually block the user from viewing or contacting you. Just letting you know BreeGrl310.