so where i work is super laid back.there are married people and couples there.

and well there is this guy he was in my glass and tonite we had an interesting convo.let me explain..

we have to hold up sticks when we hav questions as work..

so this guy as if i wanted to hold his stick and i said no thanks keep yur lil stick

then later on i asked him for his stick and he was like oh you so u got love for the stick then i said i love yur lil stick

i dont know if i should keep on saying nothing or keep on letting him flirt with me..

If it is in fun and both are agreeable and enjoying laughing then why not. Life has to be fun and lots of laughter or it gets to be too serious and blah after awhile

So just enjoy -- if no one is being offended why not

yeah but i cant tell i its harmless flirting or if he likes me

I think the guy is beyond flirting, and is flat out being rude.

i agree vocalist

That's the eternal dating question isn't it? When do you say something? I personally have never been able to tell when someone is flirting with me. So I just don't worry about it and let things go along it's natural course. I flirt and have fun with everyone I know.

This is where you get lucky and I get the shaft, though. It's mostly expected of guys to make the first move and say something to the girl. You can play on that and continue to flirt with the guy if you like or you can put a stop to it by saying something. But if you like him you don't have to say something you just keep on flirting with him until he asks you out. If he doesn't then you may have to be the bold one. I personally like it when a girl asks me out.

Guys on the other hand have to figure out when the girl is flirting because she is just having fun or if she likes you or not. Then we have to figure out how to ask without getting crushed. That's why I suck at dating I can't tell when someone likes me and most girls wont make the first move.

In the end one of you if the feelings are mutual one of you will have to make a move and that is very hard because you leave yourself vulnerable to rejection.

My advise is if you like the guy keep flirting but make it obvious you want him to ask you out. If he does great if not it's usually less embarrassing on both parties and you can continue a descent relationship. If you don't like the guy and you don't want him to ask you out then don't make flirtatious comments to him, if he proceeds and it makes you uncomfortable then tell him to stop. whether your flirting or not if it is uncomfortable you have to say something.

actually i found his replies and comment rather funny but thats just me

Quit playing with the stick!
It might really be a match and cause a fire...

but teddy its really really funny

he wants me to touch his stick

Ya I'll bet he just does...

i told him i love his stick..thats was great that shoulda have lit a fire under him not to mention i did my hair and make up that day

oh yes im rocking the flirt skills

I have an odd snese of humor too and can play along with anything (had to be to survive being a bartender and waitress most of my life!!)-- but then I'm also pretty nieve at times so I've been told -- but well the other persons found out I was just being quirky friends.

One found out enough was enough and I warned him more then once and I told him I would slap his mouth if he kept it up so he got right infront of me and said it again and I wopped him a good one -- he was in shock and then complained that I didn't give him any warning -- well he appologized a few times after that. He was way out of control though and grose!! So just keep a heads up and let him now ASAP when things just start getting out of your control OK

i think its funny and im perverted too ..

and honest...

well it really depends if it is a really NICE stick...i mean a quality hardwood...with smooth texture and beautiful grain.

You said married people and couples?? Is he married or single? If he is married or with someone...he is way out of line. I myself would still think he is out of line...but I don't like the nasty kind of teasing...but thats just me.

yeah - he's single right?

So next time grab his stick and give it a quick lick... That's what I would do...just to get a reaction!