You're right, I've been a goof and a nut my whole life. I'd work 14 -15 hours a day, mu ex thaought I was seeing someone. I'd come all sweaty and Dirty. Yeah woman love that. I'd just laugh at her.

Oh No! It's the green eyed dragon again...

Hey, beat the three headed monster. The mouth would run so fast you's think it was three heads. I used to ask. "When do you breath"?

picturing oyu walking in the house after work and threee mouths over running at the same time .... sorry but I'm laughing .... you poor guy!!!!!!! I suppose she didn't have her mouth runneth over while using your hard earned money though huh??

I was waitresssing and a table og guys came in towards the end of my shift so went took their order laughed a few times -- went back to wash the windows in the entry way ... the ex flings opens the doors mad as all hell and YELLS "sure like how you flirt with everyone" slams the door. UHG OMG now if you get a grumpy looking none smiling waitress it might be her significan't other is watching her through the windows from outside.. HE WAS SO PATHETIC!! would do that at most of my jobs ..... waitress, gas stations etc.... so oyu can just imagine ...... like the time a guy came in and asked me out while Iwas ringing him up -- had no ideawho he was or even what he looked like cause he had a full face helmet on. Ex happened to be very close and over heard it .... then he was waiting outside my work everynight for me to get off of work.
I laugh now as to how pathatic he was GEEEEEEEZE!!

countrysoul...My daughter was married to one just like that. He kept calling her work until she got fired.

You know what country,, He will always be pathetic. Jealousy is a sickness. I had a friend that was so jealous over his wife. He committed suicide. Blew his brains out in his own home while his wife and little boy where out shopping. Guess he was trying to teach her a lesson. She was so not trusted, she couldn't do anything but be a slave to the house.

WOW that would have been horrible to come home to!! I can't imagine!!
I wasn't allowed to even go shopping wiht my mom. I was 8 months pregnant and wanted to go with her and a HUGE fight came out of it -- yeah right -- 8 months turns a lot of heads!! UHG Idon't understand now as he got remarried and she does what she pleases when she pleases and even goes out of state by herself to see family. No fighting or accusations ----- I don't get it. He isn't abusive ot her in anyway. My boys each lived there for a span so seen it first hand and I talk with them now and then -- of ocurse not about "their" life.

I guess I've always had the thought of -- "go ahead and look... he's mine" type of attitude and was proud to be with some one who others WANTED. Or at least that is how I am.

The other EX -- I just don't understand why he had to be so secretive over everything -- so what if I walked in the room .. keep chatting with whom ever you are chatting with UHG I never really asked, once in awhile I'd say who is that in a curious tone as I would be chatting and he'd come and sit next to me and then we would both be chatting the person I was writing to...didn't bother me so I guess I don't understand that part of people. IT bugged the crap out of me but I also new he would NEVER have slept around on me so that wasn't an issue with us. Just SO many lies that it got to the point I could believe a thing he said -- all stories. Too bad cause he was extremely talented guy wiht words and craft wise also verbally abusive big time to my kids and had such low self esteem about himself he could stand up for himself. So the kids where who and what (same with the animals) his anger.

I somewhat disagree. Jealousy is not necessarily someone who can't trust you- it is someone who does not feel sufficient enough, someone who is insecure about someone or some situation. We all get jealous, its just human nature. Its when jealousy becomes a control issue that it needs to be shut down.

Insecurities in one self is bad enough, wheather it's part of Jealousy, low self esteem. whatever. all these are bad things when it comes to a relationship. This is why we always hear, you have to happy with your self before you can be happy with another. Or replace the word happy with love.

everyone has insecurities about something. usually its not a big enough issue to cause trouble but NO relationship is perfect.

insecurity is one thing...but most jealousy and suspicion comes from guilt.
for the most part, people who are jealous are usually guilty of the very behavior they accuse their partner of.

Good point tina

jealousy is a learned behaviour someone can decide to be secure enough in themselves not to be jealous. just because people are in a relationship it gives them no right to say how the other person can relate to other people. you dont own them.

well i agree with glittery bee and heather waz up

holla!

A yes man. huh?

Insecurity=jealousy... and insecurity can make fools of us all.

Sometimes you just have to ask yourself.... "could this action cause me to be featured on Jerry Springer?"

If you answer "yes"... avoid.

my x 2 words JEALOUS PHYSCO.!!!! lol