Online Dating and Safety, etc.

Alot of times it can be jerks hiding behind computers lol !

I'��d be careful with free ones too. Paid sites, the men are at least more serious about meeting someone for something long term and meaningful, and a lot of times, with the free ones, you get jerks, who have no job, no car, and no place of their own to live, and are looking for handouts��, and for ladies to just support them. Dweebs. And good-for-nothings. And who are only looking to play around, not for anything long term and meaningful.
. Weed fast. If you're not sure about a guy's first e-mail, read it again the next day and see how he measures up then. More likely than not, he'll be "nexted" on the second read.
. Pictures. Get pictures. If he doesn't get you a pic there's a reason. Always get a picture and ask his age.
. Always do a light date (coffee, drinks, or lunch) for a first time meeting.
. If he sounds weird in his first email, he is weird... "Next!".
. if I can't think of something to reply quickly, he's going to be boring or we'll have nothing in common... "Next!" LOL !!!!
. Don't take any email personally... even if it's good.


BBEyes
{batting eyelashes}
lol

the net is like real life there are bad ones everywhere

i got more fake people on the 3 payed sights i was on then on the 3 free sights i am on

don't judge a book by its cover

never give out personal info , never send cash

as a rule
females get horny males
males get scammers


Top 10 COMMON SCAMS

Scammer asks you to deposit check for them. They send you a counterfeit check, then need the money sent back to them. A week later your bank finds it counterfeit, you owe them the money, and you are in legal trouble.
Scammer is in the military and needs your money for special phone service to call you, or for a leave to come see you, and your call to their fake commander for permission.
Scammer is coming to see you. At last minute something terrrible happens and needs your money to get them out of the emergency.
Scammer will visit you but needs money for plane, train, or gas. After you send money, they never come.
Scammer is stuck in a country and needs your money/help to get them out.
Scammer wants to send you gift or products, needs your address and you to pay fees to fake shipping company for it. No gift will come.
Scammer sends link to website to view nude photos or webcam of them where they ask for your credit card and personal info or give you viruses.
Scammer says you won a lottery and need to pay fees to collect winnings, and asks for personal info.
Scammer says they want to use your photo on billboards, needs your personal and bank info for payments to you.
Scammer can't upload photo to site and needs your email address to send you one. If they can email it to you, they can email it to staff to add for them.

PREVENTING SCAM

DON’T ever send (or receive) money to anyone for ANY reason
DON’T give out your email address as it may be gathered for spam mail lists.
DON’T share your personal or family info.
DON’T follow links to other websites. Why do they want you to leave?.. mail is free here.
DON’T email photos of yourself or family that may be used to scam others.
DON’T be misled by perfect photos. Real people don't look like models.
DON’T say we didnt warn you...



best wishes on your hunt

EXCELLENT, Wasntme !!!!

all terrific points!