Topic: In the 'real world', how to show interest in someone?
panchovanilla's photo
Wed 08/20/14 07:47 PM

I like to hump their leg.

Oh no. I save that for first dates.

gavink83's photo
Wed 08/20/14 07:54 PM

I'm not interested in anyone I know in the 'real world', but I'm curious.. How would you approach someone/let them know you're single without blurting it out?

Especially for those of us that are single parents.



don't be scared, if you like somebody an want the attention,,,get it,its up to you girls to choose the man you like,,,,period,,,,tell your friends, an spread the news. glad one of got curious enough to ask to learn,,,SPREAD THE WORD

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Wed 08/20/14 07:57 PM


I'm not interested in anyone I know in the 'real world', but I'm curious.. How would you approach someone/let them know you're single without blurting it out?

Especially for those of us that are single parents.



don't be scared, if you like somebody an want the attention,,,get it,its up to you girls to choose the man you like,,,,period,,,,tell your friends, an spread the news. glad one of got curious enough to ask to learn,,,SPREAD THE WORD

Well said.:thumbsup:

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Wed 08/20/14 08:00 PM


I'm not interested in anyone I know in the 'real world', but I'm curious.. How would you approach someone/let them know you're single without blurting it out?

Especially for those of us that are single parents.



I'd walk up behind him, and smack him on the azz...hehe....:tongue:


are we related??? lmao.... i have no filter between brain and mouth so yeah... id blurt it out haha...

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Wed 08/20/14 08:04 PM



I'm not interested in anyone I know in the 'real world', but I'm curious.. How would you approach someone/let them know you're single without blurting it out?

Especially for those of us that are single parents.



I'd walk up behind him, and smack him on the azz...hehe....:tongue:


are we related??? lmao.... i have no filter between brain and mouth so yeah... id blurt it out haha...

Ok. Now I'm confused.
No filter between brain and mouth, I get.
But does that mean your going to slap his azz...
Or bite it?

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Wed 08/20/14 08:09 PM




I'm not interested in anyone I know in the 'real world', but I'm curious.. How would you approach someone/let them know you're single without blurting it out?

Especially for those of us that are single parents.



I'd walk up behind him, and smack him on the azz...hehe....:tongue:


are we related??? lmao.... i have no filter between brain and mouth so yeah... id blurt it out haha...

Ok. Now I'm confused.
No filter between brain and mouth, I get.
But does that mean your going to slap his azz...
Or bite it?



knowing her....both.....lol

panchovanilla's photo
Wed 08/20/14 08:12 PM
Niiiice.love

madamx7316's photo
Wed 08/20/14 08:15 PM
nom nom nom hahaha

madamx7316's photo
Wed 08/20/14 08:15 PM
lmao.... dayum girl you know me too well!!! hehehehe pitchfork

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Wed 08/20/14 08:17 PM
Edited by no1phD on Wed 08/20/14 08:17 PM
that's a good question o P..
like for instance just this evening.
I had to run out and pick something up for my sauce.. so as I'm walking in to the grocery store... and this is always my luck.lol.. this very attractive woman was walking out..
she noticed me I noticed her..
she even smiled at me... now what I should have done... was immediately
backed out of the store.. and said hey you.. nice smile.. what do you think of this chilly evening... perhaps something along those lines...
. But did I do this...NO.. as I continue to walk into the store.. I thought to myself.. there goes another missed opportunity... I looked behind myself.. hoping maybe she would come in after me... but she did not..
. shake it off just another slap to your self esteem... maybe there will be another opportunity somewhere in the store... oh look there's another young attractive lady... I walk down the aisle towards her... and of course. up from the other end of the aisle..
comes her boyfriend... shake it off just another slap in your face...
. perhaps in the bread section..
. nope.. just a lot the bubbas.. little old ladies.. and they are too busy talking to notice me... shake it off just another slap in the face...lmao

bashajones's photo
Wed 08/20/14 08:22 PM

that's a good question o P..
like for instance just this evening.
I had to run out and pick something up for my sauce.. so as I'm walking in to the grocery store... and this is always my luck.lol.. this very attractive woman was walking out..
she noticed me I noticed her..
she even smiled at me... now what I should have done... was immediately
backed out of the store.. and said hey you.. nice smile.. what do you think of this chilly evening... perhaps something along those lines...
. But did I do this...NO.. as I continue to walk into the store.. I thought to myself.. there goes another missed opportunity... I looked behind myself.. hoping maybe she would come in after me... but she did not..
. shake it off just another slap to your self esteem... maybe there will be another opportunity somewhere in the store... oh look there's another young attractive lady... I walk down the aisle towards her... and of course. up from the other end of the aisle..
comes her boyfriend... shake it off just another slap in your face...
. perhaps in the bread section..
. nope.. just a lot the bubbas.. little old ladies.. and they are too busy talking to notice me... shake it off just another slap in the face...lmao


You should stay away from the bread section and frozen foods. Those women are lazy...lol

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Wed 08/20/14 08:23 PM


that's a good question o P..
like for instance just this evening.
I had to run out and pick something up for my sauce.. so as I'm walking in to the grocery store... and this is always my luck.lol.. this very attractive woman was walking out..
she noticed me I noticed her..
she even smiled at me... now what I should have done... was immediately
backed out of the store.. and said hey you.. nice smile.. what do you think of this chilly evening... perhaps something along those lines...
. But did I do this...NO.. as I continue to walk into the store.. I thought to myself.. there goes another missed opportunity... I looked behind myself.. hoping maybe she would come in after me... but she did not..
. shake it off just another slap to your self esteem... maybe there will be another opportunity somewhere in the store... oh look there's another young attractive lady... I walk down the aisle towards her... and of course. up from the other end of the aisle..
comes her boyfriend... shake it off just another slap in your face...
. perhaps in the bread section..
. nope.. just a lot the bubbas.. little old ladies.. and they are too busy talking to notice me... shake it off just another slap in the face...lmao


You should stay away from the bread section and frozen foods. Those women are lazy...lol


trust me bubbas are not lazy...boy can they cook...lol

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Thu 08/21/14 11:39 AM
Be witty and original. Lose the compliments. Challenge them. Nobody wants the attrition of banal conversation, and if they do, you probably won't want them.

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Thu 08/21/14 07:52 PM
Here is a plethora of choices. Ask them if they live alone and then if they are single. During the two of yours feeling each other out conversations, reach out and touch their arm lightly. If all else fails, ask them if they mind if you call or text them sometime. If he's a decent guy, he won't be intimidated by a confident woman who goes after what she wants, and as long as you are confident instead of clingy, you'll hopefully weed out those who are abusive or wrestling with feelings of inadequacey. Go gettem' tiger!!!

bashajones's photo
Thu 08/21/14 07:56 PM

Here is a plethora of choices. Ask them if they live alone and then if they are single. During the two of yours feeling each other out conversations, reach out and touch their arm lightly. If all else fails, ask them if they mind if you call or text them sometime. If he's a decent guy, he won't be intimidated by a confident woman who goes after what she wants, and as long as you are confident instead of clingy, you'll hopefully weed out those who are abusive or wrestling with feelings of inadequacey. Go gettem' tiger!!!



Hey! waving ...Can you tell me how to get to Sesame Street?....tongue2

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Thu 08/21/14 08:00 PM
Yes, take a greyhound to Lawton OK, and I can show you from there.

bashajones's photo
Thu 08/21/14 08:02 PM

Yes, take a greyhound to Lawton OK, and I can show you from there.


lol...I thought Sesame Street was in New York?...You trying to trick me?...:tongue: :tongue: :tongue:

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Thu 08/21/14 08:05 PM
Big Bird commutes.

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Thu 08/21/14 08:08 PM

Big Bird commutes.



rofl rofl


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Thu 08/21/14 08:10 PM
And yes, Burt and Ernie are flamers in real life... Burt is the top.