alrite so i just made this account 2 days ago and have sent out many e-mails but no one will respond, do u guys have any advice on how to get some where with this site or do i jus have to keep being patient and keep sending them out or do others have my same issues?

the best way to get to know people is to get involved in the forums... jump in and be yourself... have some fun... relax. when you're not looking is when she shows up darlin...

Gidday mate, What madam has said is spot on have your say in the forums man, hundreds of girls and guys are read only, but they see your opinions and will contact you if they like what they read.....Trust me man...it works.

Your profile needs more pics no shirt off as your main pic and beef up your profile, give a girl a reason other than pot luck to want to contact you.....once again man, it works.

Patience is the key :)

What she said... *nod*

same issues. even a so-so girl gets 100s of messages, nevermind a "hot" one. being overwhelmed by numbers, a response by anyone would depend on fickle whims that had little to do with the merits/qualities of the sender. so don't take it personally when you rarely/ever get a response. Any forum where sex is implied will have a high guy/girl ratio (note such ratios at bars/clubs, and for the same reason).

tho the above responder is right, all i could say with regards to "game" (which I have little-to-none of, yet have had substantial success) is the following pointers:

1. go for international girls in your vicinity and/or recent immigrants. doesn't matter from where, as long as they're from outside the west (sorry, europeans and canadians don't count). This is not to flaunt your relative wealth or success by 3rd world standards, but that western girls are far more bitchy, rude, superficial and unpleasant even if you do get with them. On that note, many non-western nations are getting quite rich (China, Malaysia, Argentina).. so that angle is disappearing anyway.


2. go for religious girls, but non-christians. This isn't a swing at xtian theology, but the fact that in the US, even a "devout" christian ffemale is a pop-culture-infested joke. a devout jew/muslim/etc... is a different story and far more likely to have her head screwed on straight, but don't expect a quick lay.

3. I heard that 90% of game is your frame. get in shape and keep it. you'll know success when, even dressed casually, you get looks from girls, and guys will ask if you've been doing P90X or Zumba or whatever. with real-life success, you won't need Mingle, at least not as much.

ohhhhh i love being right!!! hehehehe

right on mikey.... spice up your profile, give the ladies something to read or to grab their interest. yes, pics rock! but in my opinion pics where looks like you're showing off can send a mix signal like you're full of yourself (like flexing without a shirt and such, not saying you are) or pics of you and another girl unless you state its not a girlfriend can make ladies shy away thinking you're on here playin games, etc.... just my opinions for what its worth

my best advice is don't be like diggz...

add more pics of yourself and take it slow
rome wasn't built in a day neither should your relationship

thank you all, ill do as your advice says, but with the frame thing, even if i work out nothing will happen (personal reasons) but everything else i will try, once again thanx :)