Topic: first world facebook problems
Killua93's photo
Thu 08/14/14 01:27 PM
People i have a problem. Yes it has something to do with facebook.

Well i deleted my facebook last january, now i got myself a new account. Stupid i know! Cant be helped.

My Exgirlfriend from give or take 5 years ago, added me. She was my first and only true love, therefore i accepted the friend request. All good so far.
I wrote her a message...but she wouldnt answer. I have been waiting for 24hours, and she did use the messenger in that period of time. So there is no way, she didnt read it.

Other thing is, that i have only family and really good friends on my facebook, and i am strict with that rule.

I cant find myself an answer: bend the rule, that she may answer in a hundret years or delete her again :((

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Thu 08/14/14 04:53 PM
Brother, I am gonna tell you what you already know: this is all kinds of wrong! If she's ur "ex" there is a reason for that. Let it go, move on, I am sure u already did, but are backpedaling like an idiot. Backpedaling will get you no where: it's freewheeling all the way! Get a backbone!

Second, either you need FB to connect with family and friends or u do not. If ur a grandpa, knock urself out, cuz u wanna keep in touch with ur grand-kids...! Other than that, twiter, instagram, something else brah.

Backbone, stop back-pedaling: let it go already!

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 08/14/14 04:58 PM
Hmm, I never understand how one reconnects with an ex.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Thu 08/14/14 05:00 PM
You need to keep looking ahead. The past is the past. She is an ex for a reason.

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Thu 08/14/14 05:14 PM
Edited by Criollo99 on Thu 08/14/14 05:20 PM
@Mariah and CT girl: I know right? Thanks for ur comments!

For a second I thought he was gonna say, "my account got hacked, lost all my family photos, had my credit card information, OMG..."

Ex issue=non-issue

BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Thu 08/14/14 06:01 PM
Really, why try to keep a connection when that kind of (Chaos?) is goin' on.

She may have sent you a friend request just because she knows you and to be friends, but just friends. Lots of people on facebook even add people for friends they don't even know; like they think it's a competition or something to see who can get the largest friends list lol.

It sounds like you want to keep some kind of link to her, that you may still be emotionally attached to her.

If her feelings are not the same, it may be better for you to of course move on from that. And if not having her on your friends list helps you do that, then so be it. You have to take "action" going in the direction you want to go, which is hopes and happiness for opportunities for a new life, or someone new in your life.

Killua93's photo
Fri 08/15/14 12:30 AM
**** yes!! My brain must have been under some happy-rainbow influence!! Cheers everyone!!

michele63's photo
Fri 08/15/14 04:49 AM


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