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Topic: The first message is the hardest....
Tryztan's photo
Mon 08/11/14 01:09 AM
A basic greeting is a pretty good start.

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Mon 08/11/14 05:50 AM
End your message with a question, there's a good chance she'll at least answer that. Of course if all you're getting from them is one or two word answers, most likely she's not interested in you and is just being polite.

Awatersign's photo
Mon 08/11/14 09:47 AM


I would say that the hardest part about dating online is the first message.
I find myself over thinking what I should say and then when I finally
decide what to say I feel like an idiot. So what's a good first message
to send?

things either flow or they don't, stop worrying so much. chances are, she too will be having the same things going through her mind.

relax and be yourself, if that means you look like an idiot, so be it. embrace it and you may surprised at her reaction. if not, no harm done, you can always go move to a monastery and begin your training as a monk...nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Like seriously though,KC post the best answer, but to add to that, if "being yourself"is saying whetever even if it means being rude,you may want to adress that,lol it aint hard as you think though,just the basic stuff!!!

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