Topic: Flawed Women
Dodo_David's photo
Mon 08/04/14 07:51 PM
The fact that all women are somehow flawed renders this thread's OP moot. laugh

smartwithsparks's photo
Mon 08/04/14 07:56 PM
rant frustrated laugh :cry: embarassed noway love

MariahsFantasy's photo
Tue 08/05/14 01:45 AM

Who decides what is or isn't a flaw.
I've never seen an instruction manual or guide on flaws.


Polls are a dangerous zone to enter. scared

Shovs's photo
Tue 08/05/14 02:38 AM
Lol ^^^^
Check out the tentative, razor sharp yet insightful replies of the males on here so far in comparison to the females.spock :laughing:

As far as I am concerned, I had to live and learn. I was a lot more harsh on my female friends when I was younger. I was jealous of more prettier/talented females. That stemmed from my insecurity and immaturity. Yet I know some vicious females who set out to tear others down with their tongues alone, just for the sheer heck of it.

We are complex beings. I find men to be more refreshing in their dealings. For ex: a man will tell me to hump off if I annoy him. All is forgiven quickly and we are back to being friends again.
A woman who has the hump with me will not necessarily tell me to hump off. Instead she will emotionally try to hurt me through sly innuendos, getting friends to back her up etc. You all know that type of woman.



smartwithsparks's photo
Tue 08/05/14 07:32 AM
Flawed Checkin In...
Im Far From Perfect..
But Dont Seek Perfect

Just Someone Perfect For Me:heart:

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Tue 08/05/14 07:38 AM

Lol ^^^^
Check out the tentative, razor sharp yet insightful replies of the males on here so far in comparison to the females.spock :laughing:

As far as I am concerned, I had to live and learn. I was a lot more harsh on my female friends when I was younger. I was jealous of more prettier/talented females. That stemmed from my insecurity and immaturity. Yet I know some vicious females who set out to tear others down with their tongues alone, just for the sheer heck of it.

We are complex beings. I find men to be more refreshing in their dealings. For ex: a man will tell me to hump off if I annoy him. All is forgiven quickly and we are back to being friends again.
A woman who has the hump with me will not necessarily tell me to hump off. Instead she will emotionally try to hurt me through sly innuendos, getting friends to back her up etc. You all know that type of woman.





I agree....isn't it sad that it has come to this for some....

makenwallo's photo
Tue 08/05/14 07:39 AM
jealous women :banana:

no photo
Wed 08/06/14 08:46 PM
Is it true that flawed women make insecure women feel better about themselves?

In my experience there are generally 2 types of "insecure" people.
1. Nothing will make them feel better. At best they will see a "flawed" person and simply move on to someone else that doesn't have that flaw to maintain their insecurity. Their "feeling better" is just a means of rationalizing the switch and offering a greater emotional reaction when they do.

2. Insecurity is just a ploy, like being a "nice" guy, something to hide behind, that justifies bad behavior like being judgmental, or a perpetual victim.
If they are insecure then any interaction with them forces you into a social contract to deal with their insecurity, offering some emotional and social gratification.
If they are insecure then that can create a baseline so no matter what you do to them they can never feel worse than they make themselves feel.

Does this explain why there are so many women jealous of other women who are assertive and want to be successful in life?

Not as much as evolutionary psychology.

jacktrades's photo
Wed 08/06/14 10:56 PM
We are all flawed thats how human beings are. One persons weakness is another's strength. Hopefully we all find someone who cares for us flaws and all.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 08/07/14 03:08 PM

Likes being floored ... Purrrrr lol


Is that your Halloween costume? bigsmile

MariahsFantasy's photo
Fri 08/08/14 10:35 AM



Likes being floored ... Purrrrr lol


Is that your Halloween costume? bigsmile
whatever makes him happy .... Grinning :-)


got my approval drinker

luvmeforlife's photo
Fri 08/08/14 11:17 AM
I'm only flawed on Mondays. I'm jealous on Tuesdays, and I'm perfect on fridays. :)

Mdarlene's photo
Mon 08/11/14 06:05 PM
ok so we are all flawed. unfortunately a large percentage of women are hard to tolerate. Have always been a tomboy and have always worked with men, can get along with women but have more fun with the men. I think because I have proven I can do "almost" anything they can and also because I can put them in their place when needed fortunately it dosn't happen very often. They always bend over backwards to help me and vice versa.

mom333's photo
Tue 08/12/14 02:52 PM
you cant go through life without flaws some flaws get better with age and experience and others stay around but even the most richest and successful people have flaws the way I see it though, flaws are what make the person, otherwise we would be robots. the thing about flaws though you cant always see them on the surface so that woman who looks like she could take on the world of business and still raise kids or just look great everyday could be a crying mess when she is alone because of the strain of keeping it all together...or she could be a huge nose picker lol. one of my flaws as you might be able to tell is I am really bad at punctuation I don't even know where im putting them lol. :)

LUNG1954's photo
Tue 08/12/14 10:13 PM
Edited by LUNG1954 on Tue 08/12/14 10:18 PM
Like most supposedly negative emotions, jealousy and envy aren'��t bad in and of themselves; the actions that might come out of them are what can get ugly. Let's delineate between the two. Per handy dandy Wikipedia, "jealousy is the result or fear of losing someone or something [that one is attached to or possesses], while envy is the resentment caused by another person having something that one does not have, but desires�" So jealousy = fear of loss and envy = resent because you want something.
According to this I think the best woman who is a glass-half-full type, so she is able to find upsides in both of these emotions.

madamx7316's photo
Tue 08/12/14 10:17 PM
here is a list of ways to win an argument with a woman:

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mom333's photo
Wed 08/13/14 07:36 AM

Insecure would be a flaw. No?

yes it is quite a big one too :)

no photo
Wed 08/13/14 08:23 AM

tsk tsk*...so true...
let Her, who is without flaw, cast the first mudpie...lol




tongue2

mom333's photo
Wed 08/13/14 10:59 AM


tsk tsk*...so true...
let Her, who is without flaw, cast the first mudpie...lol




tongue2

that kind of looks like me after I've failed another diet :( lol

no photo
Thu 08/14/14 12:58 AM
Talk about flawed women eh. Let me tell you about speechless women. They nudge you, they wink you and kick you up the ***. Some message you once and when you message them back it's as if you were dreaming because no one ever responds. sad