I been single since 2011 and trying the online online thing to find friends and maybe see if something happens but I have no luck. I know some people who have had success and they're no help. So can anyone tell me what am i doing wrong if i am? Am i not attractive to alot of people? Are people just to shy?

Hey,
from my experience it depends on the website's members. You will increase the chance of finding someone on a website that has lots of members. It also helps when you do not appear to be too "desperate" in finding someone. It is better to be on a website like this. Because you can talk to people. It will take off your stress of finding someone. Simply because you have a good time talking to people. And once people get to know your personality and they like it. Then it really increases your chance in getting a date with someone.

note to self.. try to look less desperate.. ..
Hey..op.. there is somebody for everybody... that's why they went on the Ark two by two...ok.. hang in there..