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Topic: Looks or love
MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 07/25/14 06:43 PM
doesnt work that way for me all the time I have not initially taken notice of the physical one way or the other, but after I got to KNOW the person and their attractive character attributes, I have come to look at them differently and develop a physical attraction,,, ahh the differences between men and women in terms of first perspective stated right here.... plus a woman can see more colors and images of the prism, yet we still want more than just exterior.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 07/25/14 06:56 PM
and someone who does not annoy me this^

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 07/25/14 06:58 PM
this question, no matter how many times we see it, perplexes me. why does it always come down to one or the other, as if being attracted to someone is a crime. do any of us actively seek people we find unattractive, because i'm pretty sure that is no guarantee of success... unless you are the guy singing this song, http://youtu.be/9NF5XU-k2Vk humm some actively seek out unattractive people yes, they are the fake ones. all hideous.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Fri 07/25/14 07:04 PM
plus a woman can see more colors and images of the prism, yet we still want more than just exterior. Actually, men and woman see the same colors, but men don't care about the different shades of colors.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 07/25/14 07:15 PM
plus a woman can see more colors and images of the prism, yet we still want more than just exterior. Actually, men and woman see the same colors, but men don't care about the different shades of colors. optical images are much more impressively vast and kaleidoscope-like for women yet men are the more visual creatures.

maheshc163 Joined Wed 02/12/14 Posts: 82	Fri 07/25/14 11:43 PM
Mind thinks, Eyes looks, and heart loves. follow all these three you'll find your soul mate.

drickjoeseff Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 21	Sat 07/26/14 03:05 AM
Love is powerful

graywolf55 Joined Wed 09/19/12 Posts: 1259	Sat 07/26/14 04:28 AM
How important is looks to a man? Everybody has their own tastes I know, but is it more important to a guy what the girl looks like or is it more important to find that girl that respects you, loves you, and takes care of you? I look for compatibility and shared interests. The rest only can be hoped for. That same person that i look at in the mirror each morning changes daily! Where a young man was looking back at me now there's a stranger, someone that i thought would never be there. But Age shows its face there! But the Heart still beats and the soul still yearns as the body of the same through life of Happiness Forever!! This is going away now as fast as Youth itself. As far as looks go, I'm no prize goat on anyone's farm, so why not show your age (for once) and see what's inside the person for what good that's there? Yes there is those gorgeous women and men here to set your sites on, But how about Quality people? Few and far anywhere anymore!! Everyone grows up (sooner or later) and looks in the heart of a person where there is possibly what true beauty really is in the first place!! Still this! "Beauty is only skin deep, ugly is to the bone!! Beauty fades with age, Ugly always holds its own!" Just a poem i heard a long time ago. Nomatter how beautiful you are on the outside How your HEART is on the inside is what really counts in the longrun!! Ugly always raises its head sooner or later!! How is your HEART?? (Past, Present, and Future??)

LUNG1954 Joined Thu 04/24/14 Posts: 1429	Wed 07/30/14 12:27 AM Edited by LUNG1954 on Wed 07/30/14 12:27 AM
Some people consider the personality to be an 'added bonus' on top of good looks and others consider the looks an added bonus on top of the personality. I believe the 'added bonus' on a person, {Love} because when you fall for someone's personality, almost everything about them becomes handsome and beautiful.

NoMindGamesPlease Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 461	Wed 07/30/14 02:36 AM Edited by NoMindGamesPlease on Wed 07/30/14 02:39 AM
If you asked people in this video how they feel about looks, I bet you over 90% would tell you love is more important. Here is the link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XuxOrCoYnV0

mysticalview21 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5462	Wed 07/30/14 07:11 AM Edited by mysticalview21 on Wed 07/30/14 07:28 AM
Please fill out this questioner first do u leave the toilet seat up or down ? do you leave clothes on the floor an scattered around the house ? do you like animals ? can you cook ? do you have any income ? how far away are you ... do you talk about your x a lot ? do you have children ? have u been married before ? how is your first kiss mouth open or closed ? can you make love anywhere ? are you a one women man or like many at the same time ... are you looking for someone long term ? are you funny ? do you like going out once in a while ... to the movies & dinner or lunch ... do you like theater and art ... do you like music ? would u agree to a two yr marriage just to see how it goes ? or till death do us part marriage ? would we have to get married at all ? are you supper religious? can you love me and not just my looks ? would you consider your self smart ? have you been in jail or are in jail ? would you be upset if i left all of my belongings to my child... when i die ? do you live for the day or for the future ? is this list to long or what ! what did I forget ? what was the topic lol

Foluso082 Joined Sun 07/27/14 Posts: 4	Thu 07/31/14 06:40 AM
Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it

Foluso082 Joined Sun 07/27/14 Posts: 4	Thu 07/31/14 06:44 AM
I believe the personality and the soul is what makes a person beautiful, it does not always have to be the physical appearance

ayodeji65 Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 3	Fri 08/01/14 02:30 AM
Did u like me....

ayodeji65 Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 3	Fri 08/01/14 02:31 AM
Hw are u

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Fri 08/01/14 07:01 AM
Love I guess s more important than looks..but keeping a proper look s the biggest thing one must take to make someone or evrybody if possible to fall n love with u..

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Fri 08/01/14 07:17 AM
How important is looks to a man? Everybody has their own tastes I know, but is it more important to a guy what the girl looks like or is it more important to find that girl that respects you, loves you, and takes care of you? I've been on and off dating sites for years. Looks are just as important to women as they are to men!!! Why does the way someone looks and the way they act have to be mutually exclusive? I want someone that takes care of themselves first, their body, their looks, and their personality...Just like I want to do those things for myself... And then I want 'us' to bring all of that to a relationship

rambill79 Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 5780	Fri 08/01/14 07:35 AM
How important is looks to a man? Everybody has their own tastes I know, but is it more important to a guy what the girl looks like or is it more important to find that girl that respects you, loves you, and takes care of you? For me , its about looks. the view if you will. I will never trust a woman anyway, so that leaves me back with the eye candy thing. Now. before you all get in a row and tell me that is sexist, i will say say this: ever notice how women dont trust each other? q- why is that? ans-- they know the species all too well.

Maxisu Joined Wed 07/16/14 Posts: 1212	Fri 08/01/14 07:49 AM
this question, no matter how many times we see it, perplexes me. why does it always come down to one or the other, as if being attracted to someone is a crime. do any of us actively seek people we find unattractive, because i'm pretty sure that is no guarantee of success... unless you are the guy singing this song, http://youtu.be/9NF5XU-k2Vk Lol... " Don't let your friends say you have no taste Go ahead and marry anyway Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match Take it from me, she's a better catch If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you "

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Fri 08/01/14 07:53 AM
Hahaha..God has made every woman beautiful its the laziness thats makea them ugly.. This s the best advise I ever had so far..I use this n my daily life..it helps me work harder u know..of course who would want to b ugly..? I bet..nobody..?