I am a happy go lucky kind of guy and have been for a long time now.
Now I'm back on the dating scene though, a friend told me I need to be less smiley and more "annoyed/ sour faced" if I want to attract women. So I'm wrestling with whether I shouldnt be as happy anymore. Happiness is my personality, which was good when I was younger. Now nearly 40 is it REALLY time for me to fit the stereotype of a grumpy middle aged man??

I don't really want to, but I don't want to be single for much longer either...

I find that most women like it when I focus on their breast instead of their face while communicating..

If I start low, it only can go up from there!

Well, I guess it could work if they fancy the types like James Dean or Luke Perry..

BTW, if there's such thing as the stereotype of a grumpy middle-aged man, I'm pretty sure there should also be the stereotype of a happy middle-aged man..

Well any woman that expresses herself by freely going topless is a good dater imo

@Thomas and JT you guys are so bad

@OP. Stay happy go lucky. Most girls I know would be more attracted to a happy guy than a grumpy guy no matter what age they are.

Omggggs....

someone that brings her own massage oils.

not picking your teeth at the table..
especially if you take your teeth out to do it:...

Wouldn't matter. I ultimately want a relationship, not just a good date.

Some dates were not so good and yet I still ended up being good friends with them in the end.

It depends on who you're trying to attract - a grumpy middle aged women?



Someone who knows themselves & what they are getting themselves into.

Ask Statler and Waldorf how many dates their grumpiness got them.

Thats so wrong.....

Nice lips and a long tongue.