going to delete my account. i apparently dont fit in around here, because im fat and look like a guy...or so an email i got says so. thanks to you kind people or making me smile. aprell

aprell...

You ONLY here 2 days, you haven't even given US a chance....stay!!!

don't deactive you. deactivate them. that was not permissible behavior on this site to my understanding!

Don't leave because of some jerks. There's no way in hell I would give them the satisfaction. Stick around and make friends,this site is loaded with good caring people. Just block them and stay.

Aprell, so sorry that someone would send you an email like that.
Some people are just ignorant.
Don't leave because of one persons stupidity.
Believe me there are really alot of good, and caring people here. You have only been here for a few days. Hope you will give it some more thought before you leave.
Take care

She's gone.

wow im fat too but i stay

i hope she works on her self-esteem

too bad that she didn't get a chance to report the idyit

aprell,

As your bestfriend for wy too long...please stay not everyone here is like that..i have met some really great people, and you sure as hell dont look like a guy. you are truelly a beautiful person inside and out, just give these people a chance. Trust me there are plenty of guys on here that think you dont look like a guy, and anyone of them would be privleged to know and be with you. you truelly are a special person and i love you like my sister you know that. please stay


noel

that is so sad, I do not like to hear that because there are so many good people here how is it that those few have so much control

and i bet the person who sent it dont have the balls to come foward

there should be a button in the email i/m that sends it immeditately to the report department

or is there?shows ya how much i block ppl

Too late she's gone. Oh woe the what could have been. Why is it that young women get on here, start looking around for the cutest guys, find them, find out they're jerks, then hold it against the rest of us? I've seen this all too frequently lately. Someones not checking their expectations. Nor are they keeping their insecurities in check. I would have welcomed her.

i do not understand some people.
it is because of their stupidity that they
even open their mouth.
geezz
what is the point to hurting someone?

i'm on the phone with her...apparently all she did was friend request this person and she got that horrible email. She has been going through a lot lately. Single mom crap ya know...and to hear she is fat isnt what she needs she has lost 130lbs and is doing great...im not sure i have that much determination in me ..she's a tough one...16 months ago she weighed around 280lbs she now weights 150...c'mon 150 is not fat!!!!!!!!

When you get an email like that, isn't there a report abuse button around there somewhere?

Justmenoel, please get Aprel back on here. The Hell with the hateful people. She should be very proud of her weight lose. I used to weigh 355lbs. and now I'm 240. So, yes I am still a big girl. But, you know what?????????? I luv me. If people can't accept you for the person you are, then forget them. She needs to come back. I have had some bad experiences here as well, but I am not about to let ANYONE stand in my way. Please, just tell her what I said. She is neither FAT NOR UGLY. And she needs to forget the hateful people and become friends with all us nice people. Thanks.
Ms.B

sweetie listen to me u are beautiful.u need to know that u are all that. dont let some insensitive, egodriven boy tell u or make u feel other wise u rock sweetie keep ur head up and dont let nobody control how u see ur self ppl will always say things that we dont like but it how God sees u and that it.

gee i weigh 173 pds if no man likes it oh well , thats just tough ihate people who put people down

whats really sad is that soceity doesnt look at a person for a person i dont care how much someone weighs if they have a goood heart thats all i care about.. looks are not everything ...some people self esteem is so low that they have to cut others down i hope sugar comes back and doesnt let spiritually sick people deter her from this site

ok so noel convinced me to give this another try, sorry i jumped so soon, just hurt my feelings thats all