i went to work tonight to find someone to work for me which i did lol.. but the girl there that i like alot was upset when i asked what was wrong she pointed to the milk pipe (i work on a dairy farm) and it had her name plus mine equals sex with a certain woman and man part after it. so i crawled up next to it and tried to erase it but its in permanent marker and i really dont know what to do so if anyone has an idea i would like to hear it thanks
furious in wisconsin

Paint over it?

there are chemicals out there to clean off permanent marker but i understand that you don't want to ruin the pipes in the farm..

talk to the lady & explain it is a joke & tell her how you feel..

since it stainless steel...use a little de-scaling acid on it...something like ssb-567 or its equivalent...that will take all the tains off stainless steel

You must take the desecrated pipe to the fires of MOUNT DOOM, deep in the land of Mordor! Only there can it be destroyed!

im not really worried about the pipe im more worried about what i should do about her they are really giving her a hard time just because of me meaning im a larger man and shes a beautiful petite woman

First thing I would do is go to a hardware store...or where ever you can get a can of black spray paint and paint over it. As far as this petite girl, let her know that you don't know who would do such a thing and try to be as supportive to her as you could be....

Wow that really sucks, Why is that people have to be such jack asses. The unfortunate part is that I don't know what you can do. The best you can is just tell you had nothing to do with that and try to move on. They are going to probably do it again though. how old are they? is one of them wanting to date her and is out to ruin you? I know that sounds like a sad thing but male pack mentality is a reality, especially in younger men.

Options:
violence- Doesn't work you just look like a jerk usually. violence does not solve problems "."

Retaliation- Makes you out to be as immature as the jag offs that did this to you. plus this will just perpetuate the situation further.

Nothing- Doesn't sound like a great solution but maybe showing her you are above this and apologizing for it happening even though it isn't your fault. Fix the pipe though so she doesn't have to look at it every day.

Other than that I'm tapped. Any women on here have some advice to help Husky out.