Topic: need help
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Sun 09/23/07 07:37 PM
my cousins buddy has a gf thats on this site and shes been talking to other guys and telling them that shes single and doesnt have a bf. but yet at the same time she tells her bf how much she loves him and they got promise rings and are talking about getting married. she talked to me on here not knowing that i know her bf and told me she was single. do i tell him what shes doing or do i stay out of it and let him get hurt later on down the road?

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Sun 09/23/07 07:41 PM
Id tell him whats going on now. Save him the hurt later if they do get married.

Riardo's photo
Sun 09/23/07 07:42 PM
Same

catchme_ifucan's photo
Sun 09/23/07 07:42 PM
noway Yikes, you will be the bad guy!!!

If it was me I would show him cuz I'm a azz anyways..

you could show him the site & say damn dude look what i found... & show the notes..


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Sun 09/23/07 07:42 PM
thats hard but I would tell him

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Sun 09/23/07 07:42 PM
if you are 100% sure
tell him
marriage should not be entered into with someone that you can't trust

Clancybee's photo
Sun 09/23/07 07:44 PM
the real topic here is TRUTH, Bill. She may not be truthful and that is her and your friend problem to work out. BUT you also are not being truthful by decieving her on this site.
my advice is to stay out of it.

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Sun 09/23/07 07:45 PM
i'm with catchme....i'd show him the site...just tell him to check it out and then just kinda happen to go onto his girls page....OOOOPPPPSSS!!!

better he finds out now, than later! and who knows maybe he'll join and find someone new....lol :smile:

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Sun 09/23/07 07:48 PM
I agree with Catch. Telling him might cause some friction between you and him, but actually showing him her message telling you she is single, will give him actual evidence.

Turn it around -- if you were him, would you want to know? I sure as hell would....

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Sun 09/23/07 07:48 PM
I agree...show him the site, show him her page...he should not get married, if she's playing him...

YeaBigsexy's photo
Sun 09/23/07 07:48 PM
Well unless shes tryin to score cyber slut points!!!
I dont know why she wouldnt??????????????
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 09/23/07 07:52 PM
Why do people have to talk to theirselves????huh

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Sun 09/23/07 07:57 PM
Thanks guys, but this is a hard one for me to deal with.

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Sun 09/23/07 08:02 PM
Knowing about your rival is critical. Use spies to gather valuable information that will keep you a step ahead. Better still: Play the spy yourself. In polite social encounters, learn to probe. Ask indirect questions to get people to reveal their weaknesses and intentions. There is no occasion that is not an opportunity for artful spying.


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Mon 09/24/07 11:36 AM
Bring proof and tell him...