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Topic: Online Dating...The Hard Part
ShyandBlue's photo
Thu 07/03/14 09:54 AM






for me I've learned that hot girls that have only one pic on their profile are %99 fake, it's against nature for a beautiful woman to post only one pic of her, if she knows she's such a good looking girl she would post more than one.
fake how? if I was a scammer, I would steal a bouquet of pics to put in my profile rather than just one. that wont make it more real.


Not really Klc today you can actually find out on Google if the pic is from the Internet or not, that alone tells me right out if it's fake.
I saw that on catfish. still, having only one pic isnt what falsifies. its the fact that its a stolen pic. be it one or many. I guess i just dont get it why one pic means she's fake.


Not all but with women it's only natural for you girls to show your beauty if you are just that beautiful, just doesn't make sense that a gorgeous girl would post only one pic
other profiles are a different story but I was aiming on those profiles with a model like pics
ah, what if she's a beautiful gal who's not a model with access to lots of portfolio stuff? what if she could only be bothered to have one professional shot made. what if she wants you to be interested in more than her physical appearance? I still dont buy the fake assumption.


yes I agree with you on that, but really how many do you think do that?
from my experience on this site alone, I have come across so many profiles that their pics were taken from the Internet as I checked them out and %99 of them had only one pic so what you're saying here would be not even the other %1

ShyandBlue's photo
Thu 07/03/14 10:00 AM



ah, what if she's a beautiful gal who's not a model with access to lots of portfolio stuff? what if she could only be bothered to have one professional shot made. what if she wants you to be interested in more than her physical appearance? I still dont buy the fake assumption.


yes I agree with you on that, but really how many do you think do that?
from my experience on this site alone, I have come across so many profiles that their pics were taken from the Internet as I checked them out and %99 of them had only one pic so what you're saying here would be not even the other %1
dunno. I dont care enough about mens pics to check them out on the internet so I dont share the experience. I understand the apprehension when the pic is so great lookin, but just because theres only one makes no sense to me personally.


that's because you probably put yourself here and as for you, you wouldn't care to put 1p probably but trust me for saying that the amount of fake girls profile here is huge and I know that for a fact

ShyandBlue's photo
Thu 07/03/14 10:12 AM



dunno. I dont care enough about mens pics to check them out on the internet so I dont share the experience. I understand the apprehension when the pic is so great lookin, but just because theres only one makes no sense to me personally.


that's because you probably put yourself here and as for you, you wouldn't care to put 1p probably but trust me for saying that the amount of fake girls profile here is huge and I know that for a fact
I have 1p up but its just a snap, so probably not a potentially suspicious model photo.

I dont doubt what youre sayin your experience is. Just curious of the red flagged sole pic.


ya just viewed your profile, see you've got a natural pic with people but posting a professional shot means the girl really wants to show herself, one shot would not be enough for her
this is very different than your kind of pic klc!!!

dreamerana's photo
Thu 07/03/14 12:12 PM


Which brings me to my discussion how can you tell when a person is being real and sincere when you talk to them and try to get to know them online?


I think it takes a lot of communication to get to know someone, either online or in person. A fake will slip up eventually and you can usually catch it and sense something is off. I also think the forums are the perfect place for getting to know someone. Sometimes that too can be a mask, so I think trusting your gut instincts is a must, as they are usually right in the end.

I agree with this.
The internet is similar to meeting people in the outside world.
Most of us are not going to jump straight into a relationship with the first person we meet. We take time and interaction to get a sense of who they are. We learn if we share compatible ideas about what matters.
Sure, there are people on here that you need to be careful of, but there are also a lot of good people as well.
Wish you the best.

ShyandBlue's photo
Thu 07/03/14 12:13 PM





dunno. I dont care enough about mens pics to check them out on the internet so I dont share the experience. I understand the apprehension when the pic is so great lookin, but just because theres only one makes no sense to me personally.


that's because you probably put yourself here and as for you, you wouldn't care to put 1p probably but trust me for saying that the amount of fake girls profile here is huge and I know that for a fact
I have 1p up but its just a snap, so probably not a potentially suspicious model photo.

I dont doubt what youre sayin your experience is. Just curious of the red flagged sole pic.


ya just viewed your profile, see you've got a natural pic with people but posting a professional shot means the girl really wants to show herself, one shot would not be enough for her
this is very different than your kind of pic klc!!!
right, so is one pic ok if its just a snap? what would make you less suspicious? Im sure your concern is common. You know Im not trina argue with you, right? ....or maybe you want a gal who really likes showing herself in general? Model or otherwise?


no we're not arguing here, we're trying to clear a point
klc think about it, put yourself in a model shoes, coming on here and looking for a guy, you know exactly how good you look like and you have many pictures showing your beauty, would you really settle for one? could one pic really satisfy a model showing her beauty that she's so proud of everyday? I don't think so
and the best of all they leave one word "Hi" hahaha
come on it's common sense and it's in a woman nature to get attention especially if she knows she has what to sell
it's just not natural to see real one with one pic
as for me I haven't met almost any one like this here

ShyandBlue's photo
Thu 07/03/14 12:49 PM



no we're not arguing here, we're trying to clear a point
klc think about it, put yourself in a model shoes, coming on here and looking for a guy, you know exactly how good you look like and you have many pictures showing your beauty, would you really settle for one? could one pic really satisfy a model showing her beauty that she's so proud of everyday? I don't think so
and the best of all they leave one word "Hi" hahaha
come on it's common sense and it's in a woman nature to get attention especially if she knows she has what to sell
it's just not natural to see real one with one pic
as for me I haven't met almost any one like this here

I think I see your point. If a gal goes out and gets professional shots done, then she will post a bunch because it also means she has something to take professional shots OF.

We all love the strenuous "Hi" that comes from our dream mate.

Ive met gawgez gals who dont like to 'sell' their looks tho. Just because she's hot, doesnt mean she wants attention.
Disclaimer: I dont hang with folks who like attention, so Im unlikely to be around many who do.


and again there's not argument there, but what I'm saying while there are those FEW that don't like the attention, the majority are different
sure some wouldn't want but to put a pr pic and be modest at the same time, I don't know, like I said didn't meet them here yet
not even those like you mentioned here that are different
so for me I said on my profile if you think you're hot and you've got only one pic don't bother to message me, if she respect my wish she will put more than one OR like some did, they told me the don't want to post but they didn't mind to email me, I thought that was very respectful and gave them my email address
if one persist not to give more than one pic there's already something wrong with her she might not be telling me and such a person is one I'm not looking after
I'd respect her will and expect her to respect mine as well, that's all

ShyandBlue's photo
Thu 07/03/14 12:57 PM

sure. i agree everyone should respect anyones preferences. and for sure you have more experience with women than I do, any day. Im just curious.

I have learned somethin new. pic numbers. and the data they reveal.


and I wish I didn't have to be experience in the matter :(
but having said that we're only looking for ONE partner and with it there's gonna be lots of filtering done here by girls and guys I just hope that at the end of the day I'd look back and say it was all worth it.

ShyandBlue's photo
Thu 07/03/14 01:15 PM



sure. i agree everyone should respect anyones preferences. and for sure you have more experience with women than I do, any day. Im just curious.

I have learned somethin new. pic numbers. and the data they reveal.


and I wish I didn't have to be experience in the matter :(
but having said that we're only looking for ONE partner and with it there's gonna be lots of filtering done here by girls and guys I just hope that at the end of the day I'd look back and say it was all worth it.
me too. We all have preferences and hope the filtering yields success one day.


you know something klc, if I were you I'd put your pic as the main and the abstract second

BreakingGood's photo
Thu 07/03/14 06:51 PM
I will take the topic as a jeopardy question.......

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What is cyber wood.


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