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Topic: Online relationshp is for real?
Csv2151 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5	Tue 07/01/14 08:29 AM
I'm trying to convince my self to belive but base on my experience uts really hard:( please come here i cant wait to see you.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Wed 07/02/14 09:02 AM
Not sure. It's only the internet, so try not to take it so seriously. Also be careful, because it's the internet. You never really know when people are lying. I just take it with a pinch of salt.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 07/02/14 04:21 PM
Not sure. It's only the internet, so try not to take it so seriously. Also be careful, because it's the internet. You never really know when people are lying. I just take it with a pinch of salt. Great advise!!! Not saying you wont find that "someone here,but atleast make sure they're close aswell,am kinda just here for the forums now realy,i feel you should try and find someone you can meet and see ,but i wouldnt say realy limit yourself to much though!!!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 07/02/14 04:25 PM
Even the people closest to you will lie.

Copper Nitrogen Titanium Joined Mon 06/16/14 Posts: 1027	Wed 07/02/14 05:06 PM
It is as real as you allow it to get. The only difference between the people you meet on line and the people you meet off line is in the distance you travel to share a hug. People can lie and manipulate in both areas. Some lies are easier to pull off online such as A/S/L, hygiene, appearance. But all in all a lie is a lie.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 07/02/14 05:22 PM
Realy all true,liers and fake people are here AND close to you,i know from experience,but good luck with the online thing,i think i might be done with it,lol maybe,aint realy sure,personaly i feel its more risky online though,and alot of people would tell you they rather date peopl in the same area city ect.,to me that definitly makes more sense since you dont know who is who anyway,but hey,take a chance if you wish,whatever floats your boat

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 07/02/14 05:30 PM
It is as real as you allow it to get. The only difference between the people you meet on line and the people you meet off line is in the distance you travel to share a hug. People can lie and manipulate in both areas. Some lies are easier to pull off online such as A/S/L, hygiene, appearance. But all in all a lie is a lie. I totaly disagree,you can make a better judment with the peopl you meet than the people you meet online,its much more than distance,there are real and fake peopl here right,but tell me,why is there sooo many complaints about fake people and scammers?????

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Wed 07/02/14 05:31 PM
it is as real as you I want it to be.. are as real as your imagination will let it be.. you just have to be creative.. very very creative..lol... .. I have movie nights with my online friends.. we both get the same movie.. put it on at the same time.. and text each other during the movie.. movie night.. it's a lot of fun actually..

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 07/02/14 05:44 PM
I think the online "friend thing is cool,thats why ever since i started the forum i fell in love with it,i finaly feel like am talking to real people.......but to look for love??aint so sure yet though..am stickinf to the forum for now lol!!!!.................................................................................................................................. it is as real as you I want it to be. are as real as your imagination will let it be.. you just have to be creative.. very very creative..lol... .. I have movie nights with my online friends.. we both get the same movie.. put it on at the same time.. and text each other during the movie.. movie night.. it's a lot of fun actually..

AMILIA1724 Joined Thu 05/08/14 Posts: 372	Wed 07/02/14 07:49 PM
Maybe,that why were here in the internet to find someone real, hopefully he/she is real even if theres a lot of scammers here.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 07/02/14 08:18 PM
I'm trying to convince my self to belive but base on my experience uts really hard:( please come here i cant wait to see you. Know what else is hard? Calculus II.

Copper Nitrogen Titanium Joined Mon 06/16/14 Posts: 1027	Wed 07/02/14 08:26 PM
It is as real as you allow it to get. The only difference between the people you meet on line and the people you meet off line is in the distance you travel to share a hug. People can lie and manipulate in both areas. Some lies are easier to pull off online such as A/S/L, hygiene, appearance. But all in all a lie is a lie. I totaly disagree,you can make a better judment with the peopl you meet than the people you meet online,its much more than distance,there are real and fake peopl here right,but tell me,why is there sooo many complaints about fake people and scammers????? How can you totally agree while stating you disagree? I said some lies are easier to pull off when playing online. There are no fake people. There is a person behind every profile you encounter. There are liars, there are scammed ... but they are not fake. They are very real people who come here for the same reason every other person comes here for. To achieve a goal. Whether or not the goal be finding love or getting money or even just getting attention. Or at least that is my opinion.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Wed 07/02/14 08:32 PM
.op.. this helps make it a little more real!!!...myself and my online friend.. do pajama parties.!... and no it's not what you think!.. well it kind of is..lol what we do is get in are most provocative sexiest pajamas.. . and send pics to each other.. doing housework... like vacuuming.. are dusting... I will send her pics of me doing something manly like fixing the vacuum...lol... it's quite hilarious... and somewhat erotic...mmmm.. just keeping it real...lol . .

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Thu 07/03/14 09:56 AM
It is as real as you allow it to get. The only difference between the people you meet on line and the people you meet off line is in the distance you travel to share a hug. People can lie and manipulate in both areas. Some lies are easier to pull off online such as A/S/L, hygiene, appearance. But all in all a lie is a lie. I totaly disagree,you can make a better judment with the peopl you meet than the people you meet online,its much more than distance,there are real and fake peopl here right,but tell me,why is there sooo many complaints about fake people and scammers????? How can you totally agree while stating you disagree? I said some lies are easier to pull off when playing online. There are no fake people. There is a person behind every profile you encounter. There are liars, there are scammed ... but they are not fake. They are very real people who come here for the same reason every other person comes here for. To achieve a goal. Whether or not the goal be finding love or getting money or even just getting attention. Or at least that is my opinion. First you need to understandstand what i igree and disagree too...you clearly don"t understand what people mean by "fake people",,some who you see everyday that pretends to be your friend,thats what most of us call fake,when someone says"you aint real"what you lol think they mean,imaginary lol?

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Thu 07/03/14 10:00 AM
It is as real as you allow it to get. The only difference between the people you meet on line and the people you meet off line is in the distance you travel to share a hug. People can lie and manipulate in both areas. Some lies are easier to pull off online such as A/S/L, hygiene, appearance. But all in all a lie is a lie. I totaly disagree,you can make a better judment with the peopl you meet than the people you meet online,its much more than distance,there are real and fake peopl here right,but tell me,why is there sooo many complaints about fake people and scammers????? How can you totally agree while stating you disagree? I said some lies are easier to pull off when playing online. There are no fake people. There is a person behind every profile you encounter. There are liars, there are scammed ... but they are not fake. They are very real people who come here for the same reason every other person comes here for. To achieve a goal. Whether or not the goal be finding love or getting money or even just getting attention. Or at least that is my opinion. First you need to understandstand what i igree and disagree too...you clearly don"t understand what people mean by "fake people",,some who you see everyday that pretends to be your friend,thats what most of us call fake,when someone says"you aint real"what you lol think they mean,imaginary lol? And also my wrong choice of word was"totaly",sorry!

Csv2151 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5	Thu 07/03/14 10:41 PM
Thanks guys four advice highly appreciated :D god bless you all.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Thu 07/03/14 11:00 PM
Meeting people online can be the beginning of real. It takes time to get to know a person. It's easier to get a sense of who they are if they participate in the forums and you read their posts along multiple threads. Don't give up. Wish you the best.

Copper Nitrogen Titanium Joined Mon 06/16/14 Posts: 1027	Fri 07/04/14 05:15 AM
First you need to understandstand what i igree and disagree too...you clearly don"t understand what people mean by "fake people",,some who you see everyday that pretends to be your friend,thats what most of us call fake,when someone says"you aint real"what you lol think they mean,imaginary lol? no, I clearly know what people mean by fake people. I just wish people would use more appropriate words than what ever is easy and sounds good. They use a false personsa. Trick and lies to 'play their game' Regardless, I ended it all with stating it was my oponion. It doesn't have to be shared by others.

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Fri 07/04/14 05:24 AM
It depends ..I guess everyone has had different experiences, the one person I met online...our relationship went from good to bad... to good again to even worse. Moral of my story....Don't trust to fast. Don't love to quickly. Everything isn't always as it seems online.

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Fri 07/04/14 05:44 AM
Life is life...... period.