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Topic: how long does it take to get over a broken relationship?
meomap Joined Sun 06/29/14 Posts: 1	Sun 06/29/14 09:43 AM
Sounds like a silly question huh? But to me it's not easy to get over even though the relationship ended in a bad way. I don't think i still love him but i feel bad to see him happy without me. What a selfish woman I am!

Copper Nitrogen Titanium Joined Mon 06/16/14 Posts: 1027	Sun 06/29/14 10:27 AM
This is determined by each individual. Some people hang on much longer than others. It doesn't make you selfish, it makes you human. Some things cannot be rushed. And just sometimes it is harder to let go when it was bad because you have an innate emotional drive to 'fix' things not walk away.

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Sun 06/29/14 10:30 AM


no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 06/29/14 10:31 AM
about the amount of time it takes me to find the next relationship.. that I can mess up..lol..

Astrid Joined Tue 03/25/14 Posts: 7748	Sun 06/29/14 10:42 AM
Reality is calling. Move on because your heart finally understands that there is no turning back. Make sure that when you give your heart away, it's to someone who has hands strong enough to hold it forever, yet gentle enough to hold it without breaking it.

0ldhag Joined Sat 05/31/14 Posts: 1145	Sun 06/29/14 11:13 AM
My first relationship took 6 months to get over but I've got it down to 39 minutes now.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 06/29/14 11:54 AM
My first relationship took 6 months to get over but I've got it down to 39 minutes now. Well damn. I am at 40 minutes. Wonder what I am doing wrong. Hmmmmmmm.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Sun 06/29/14 11:58 AM
And the OP's already deactivated.

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Sun 06/29/14 12:05 PM
Guess they weren't ready to move on.

0ldhag Joined Sat 05/31/14 Posts: 1145	Sun 06/29/14 12:10 PM
My first relationship took 6 months to get over but I've got it down to 39 minutes now. Well damn. I am at 40 minutes. Wonder what I am doing wrong. Hmmmmmmm. The quickest way to get over is to get under I'm getting pretty quick at it

stan_147 Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 3443	Sun 06/29/14 12:19 PM
From a millisecond to a millennium. Every one is different.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sun 06/29/14 12:26 PM
From a millisecond to a millennium. Every one is different. ^ This except for the millisecond....Those peeps are The Walking Dead....

kurly_gurly Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 223	Sun 06/29/14 02:32 PM
Always depends on how much time is spent dwelling on it. Yes, we have feelings. Allow yourself a certain amount of time to grieve it as needed. Keep it short and keep it moving.

fallen_wolf Joined Sun 06/29/14 Posts: 866	Mon 06/30/14 06:40 AM
i went through for few years and fell into major depression. but surprisingly got out of it alive

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0ldhag Joined Sat 05/31/14 Posts: 1145	Mon 06/30/14 07:30 AM
I broke up with my first boyfriend in Burger King

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4Browneyes Joined Wed 06/25/14 Posts: 52	Mon 06/30/14 07:51 AM
Some people stay in a relationship for a long time -hoping it will work out. During that time they feel completely alone and when the break up actually happens- moving on is quicker because they feel like they have been single for such a long time already.