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Topic: Why don't people read profiles?
Marriedclaire Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 67	Sat 06/28/14 01:33 PM
Does my head in lol

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 06/28/14 01:36 PM
Op...can you elaborate.. . do you mean when they messaged you... they don't take the time to learn something about you..? or do you mean when you view someone they don't view you back.. Hmm...

Marriedclaire Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 67	Sat 06/28/14 01:37 PM
No I mean when they ask 'What's your name?' or 'Are you single?' etc instead of just spending 10 seconds to answer that themselves.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 06/28/14 01:39 PM
well sometimes if you message somebody.. they just respond to your message instantly.. and would prefer to find out who you are from you.. .. I usually send a very short quick message in response to their message... then go read your profile..

Marriedclaire Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 67	Sat 06/28/14 01:39 PM
cuz they dont care about you as a person, they just want to 'put it in anything.' Most likely!!

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 06/28/14 01:41 PM
oh yeah and not everybody is savvy to how all this works.. it takes a few slaps in the face before you .. clue in...lol

Marriedclaire Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 67	Sat 06/28/14 01:41 PM
well sometimes if you message somebody.. they just respond to your message instantly.. and would prefer to find out who you are from you.. .. I usually send a very short quick message in response to their message... then go read your profile.. Shows ignorance to ask my name though, don't you think?

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 06/28/14 01:42 PM
well not everybody has their real name on their profile.. for instance what's my name..

Razisayyed Joined Sun 03/24/13 Posts: 6	Sat 06/28/14 01:43 PM
yup

Marriedclaire Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 67	Sat 06/28/14 01:45 PM
well not everybody has their real name on their profile.. for instance what's my name.. Irrelevant point...

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 06/28/14 01:46 PM
I thought that was your point..?

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 06/28/14 01:47 PM
No I mean when they ask 'What's your name?' or 'Are you single?' etc instead of just spending 10 seconds to answer that themselves.

Marriedclaire Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 67	Sat 06/28/14 01:49 PM
Im pretty savvy, so Im gonna guess Claire? Claire are you single btw?? lmao

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 06/28/14 01:50 PM
it sounds like its in general.. not Pacific to her.. as is my answer..

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 06/28/14 01:51 PM
it sounds like its in general.. not Pacific to her.. as is my answer..

Marriedclaire Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 67	Sat 06/28/14 01:52 PM
it sounds like its in general.. not Pacific to her.. as is my answer.. It is both in general and specific to me and three people who have messaged me without taking a few seconds of courtesy to look past my profile pic.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 06/28/14 01:53 PM
oh yeah and not everybody is savvy to how all this works.. it takes a few slaps in the face before you .. clue in...lol

Marriedclaire Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 67	Sat 06/28/14 01:53 PM
Yeah they do but i don't flaunt anything (nothign to flaunt lol)

0ldhag Joined Sat 05/31/14 Posts: 1145	Sat 06/28/14 01:54 PM
Pictures say a thousand words

Marriedclaire Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 67	Sat 06/28/14 01:55 PM
My point is that I think it shows a lack of genuine interest tbh