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Topic: Should /would you tell a friend their being cheated on
Awatersign's photo
Thu 06/26/14 12:04 PM
Lol am almost sure women would tell their girlfriends or their male friends:smile: ..but me personaly,i dont think it's realy my place to do so, however,i mite just give a slight hint ,but, if its like to a point where my friend is being used and realy taken advantage of,i proberly would especaily if its my best friend, but keep in mind this may create more problems or more serious problems..so, ide like to hear from you guys on that:smile: !!!!

AnnabelLee78's photo
Thu 06/26/14 12:34 PM
Male or female should not matter in my opinion. Making excuses for not doing the right thing based on gender, well that's on you. Of course I'm female and my opinion wasn't asked for but that's what happens on the internet, lol.

michele63's photo
Thu 06/26/14 12:41 PM
no never again. been there done that and i got the worst of the deal. lost two friendships and they stayed together precariously

no photo
Thu 06/26/14 12:44 PM
I have knowledge and proof that a friend of mine is being cheated on male or female of course I'm going to say something.
Glad my friends told me about an ex of mine that was seeing her exboyfriend while I was away in Europe for 3 weeks.
Needless to say, when I got back we had dinner and I broke things off. Can't say it hurt anyless, but was glad my friends had told me.:thumbsup:

no photo
Thu 06/26/14 12:47 PM
It really depends on the situation, but I would have a difficult time keeping my mouth shut about it.

rayboybozz's photo
Thu 06/26/14 12:52 PM
If eney one ceats tell the other half i would

rayboybozz's photo
Thu 06/26/14 12:53 PM
I would rater know the truth then a lie
I dont lie as see no reason for it

0ldhag's photo
Thu 06/26/14 12:57 PM

Lol am almost sure women would tell their girlfriends or their male friends:smile: ..but me personaly,i dont think it's realy my place to do so, however,i mite just give a slight hint ,but, if its like to a point where my friend is being used and realy taken advantage of,i proberly would especaily if its my best friend, but keep in mind this may create more problems or more serious problems..so, ide like to hear from you guys on that:smile: !!!!


But if your girl was cheating on you, wouldn't you want to know?

no photo
Thu 06/26/14 01:00 PM

It really depends on the situation, but I would have a difficult time keeping my mouth shut about it.


yep same

Thomas27's photo
Thu 06/26/14 01:21 PM
Okay, if I was the one that my friends girlfriend was cheating on my friend with, I would not tell my friend until after we had sex, so that way I could rub it in his face!!

Like, " In yo Face"!!!

You know what I mean, does that make any sense?smokin

no photo
Thu 06/26/14 01:28 PM


It really depends on the situation, but I would have a difficult time keeping my mouth shut about it.


yep same

same here

Awatersign's photo
Thu 06/26/14 01:47 PM
Edited by Awatersign on Thu 06/26/14 01:50 PM

Male or female should not matter in my opinion. Making excuses for not doing the right thing based on gender, well that's on you. Of course I'm female and my opinion wasn't asked for but that's what happens on the internet, lol.
You missunderstood me, what i meant is that females tend to gosssip more and ive known them tell their friends most times when guys reary do it!:smile:

Awatersign's photo
Thu 06/26/14 02:22 PM


Lol am almost sure women would tell their girlfriends or their male friends:smile: ..but me personaly,i dont think it's realy my place to do so, however,i mite just give a slight hint ,but, if its like to a point where my friend is being used and realy taken advantage of,i proberly would especaily if its my best friend, but keep in mind this may create more problems or more serious problems..so, ide like to hear from you guys on that:smile: !!!!


But if your girl was cheating on you, wouldn't you want to know?
Hi:smile: ,,yeah, ide like to know,,but i'm a beleiver in "minding your own buisness, but every situation aint the same like some of you guys here said,sometimes people that does that are often the reason some peopl break up sometimes,,some just be looking for reason to break up other people..knowbody's perfect ,ofcorse there going to be times when peopl cheat..but alot of them still end up working out alot of times?..what if you go and tLk to the person cheating and say "hey, that realy aint nice ect. If u keep doing it i'll tell my friend ect...would'nt that be better than just tryN to mess up other people's relationship?..after all it's their's!!

smartwithsparks's photo
Thu 06/26/14 02:29 PM
i would tell

Awatersign's photo
Thu 06/26/14 02:42 PM

Male or female should not matter in my opinion. Making excuses for not doing the right thing based on gender, well that's on you. Of course I'm female and my opinion wasn't asked for but that's what happens on the internet, lol.
And also check.this out,say you go ahead and do the so call "right thing" and find out later your friend is also cheating?..would that still be the right thing?or better yet, they end up having a fight and it gets to the extreme?one get hurt bad, death,suicidal problems ect. Would that still be the "rite thing"?...read the post carefully and think about what you're doin first...i never said dont tell them or i wouldnt,and am not making excuses for nothing or knowone, we just have to be more wiser sometime..the tounge is a very serious thing...use it wisely!!!!


Tryztan's photo
Thu 06/26/14 04:57 PM
I have told my friend before that I caught her boyfriend making out with another woman.


Jtevans's photo
Thu 06/26/14 05:08 PM
not only would i tell them but i would provide pics.cause that's what friends do




they stick around and enjoy the show and take pics and stuff smokin

no photo
Thu 06/26/14 05:08 PM

Okay, if I was the one that my friends girlfriend was cheating on my friend with, I would not tell my friend until after we had sex, so that way I could rub it in his face!!

Like, " In yo Face"!!!

You know what I mean, does that make any sense?smokin


surprised ..... Cheater!:angry:

Thomas27's photo
Thu 06/26/14 05:14 PM


Okay, if I was the one that my friends girlfriend was cheating on my friend with, I would not tell my friend until after we had sex, so that way I could rub it in his face!!

Like, " In yo Face"!!!

You know what I mean, does that make any sense?smokin


surprised ..... Cheater!:angry:


Cheater cheater pumpkin eater! drinks

0ldhag's photo
Thu 06/26/14 05:14 PM

I have told my friend before that I caught her boyfriend making out with another woman.




What happened? Did she stay with him? are you both still friends?

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