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Well maybe you should jump things off. That way he can see what you call a spark, if you think it's a spark in him keep him but if it appears to be as you say boring, then you taken to long, he should have been dumped a month ago.... Thanks for the advice but I have a 90 day rule.....no goodies |
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dump... and get a 6 pack of moosehead.
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So I have a solution the boy doesn't want to dump me so I'm going to start dating his friend.....that should end it all......
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K I just started dating this guy 2 months ago and he is boring me to death......we communicate well but there is no spark....what do you do....keep him around or dump him..... 
I'm totally confused.  and I haven't read any other responses on this thread to see the various responses this topic can produce.
The thing is... why are you dating someone you find so entirely boring that you're telling us about it to get our advice on what you should do? Is this a real dilemma in your life, or just a subject you picked to start a thread for feedback? You're a very attractive woman and it seems you could have the man of your choice... so I'm honestly curious... |
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So I have a solution the boy doesn't want to dump me so I'm going to start dating his friend.....that should end it all......
Tanz was joking. |
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I'm use to how tanz posts the way she does it's been 5 years so nothing that tanz posts surprises me.
This is tanz's thread so the right thing for me to do is allow her to address your concern about her private life. |
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Edited by
AthenaRose2
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Thu 06/19/14 04:48 AM
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K I just started dating this guy 2 months ago and he is boring me to death......we communicate well but there is no spark....what do you do....keep him around or dump him.....
I'm totally confused. and I haven't read any other responses on this thread to see the various responses this topic can produce.
The thing is... why are you dating someone you find so entirely boring that you're telling us about it to get our advice on what you should do? Is this a real dilemma in your life, or just a subject you picked to start a thread for feedback? You're a very attractive woman and it seems you could have the man of your choice... so I'm honestly curious... Excuse me ladies if I appear rude for intruding into your exchange, but several things about this topic are stimulating my curiosity... So I have a solution the boy doesn't want to dump me so I'm going to start dating his friend.....that should end it all......rofl 
why would you even think that is funny .. I feel sorry for the man involved.. He deserves more respect than that . Hopefully he will come to his senses I tend to agree that the public show of blatant disrespect is astounding, even in jest. So it makes me wonder if the OP really wants our advice and input or this is just another thread that's been created for sheer shock value and entertainment? Tanz was joking. 
I wonder how he would feel if he saw this thread . Would he see it as a joke .. Being ridiculed in a public forum Shows a lack of respect and betrayal of a relationship .. in my opinion Public betrayal and ridicule of one's date sure would warn me about the caution needed to get involved with someone who would do this, because they can just as easily do it to me. Better to know in advance what to look out for though. I'm use to how tanz posts the way she does it's been 5 years so nothing that tanz posts surprises me. This is tanz's thread so the right thing for me to do is allow her to address your concern about her private life.
It is not a concern .. Just stating my opinion But it is Clear my values .. and how i show respect for someone i am involved with ... are in conflict with what the op has expressed I'm confused even further.
From Tanz' profile data it appears that she just recently joined Mingle2, so unless she's got multiple profiles here how can her posts be well known over a 5 year period? Also... threads don't belong to the OPs and this was made very clear on another thread a short time back. So, we are all free to state our opinions and talk to each other or post over one another as we like. Regardless to the OP's intent or the many spins this thread has taken it is obvious that this topic can stir vastly different feelings when we apply our own set of personal standards to the issues being discussed. And I'm still curious to hear from Tanz just exactly what it is she ultimately wants to derive from other Minglers via this thread?
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K I will dump him after Father's Day........that's more respectful right..... 
I believe this matter should of been resolved, unless you're just indecisive and seeking attention at somebody else expense? "90 day rule." Maybe you're boring they hell out of him. In this particular instance, I hope he's getting his goodies elsewhere and stringing you along. This post might of started with genuine concern but now is totally disrespectful 
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Hey Blondy, quit dissecting profiles!......hi BTW, I'm the comic relief.
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I see the women here don't like my nature.......
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I see the women here don't like my nature.......
It might not just be the women |
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I'm use to how tanz posts the way she does it's been 5 years so nothing that tanz posts surprises me. This is tanz's thread so the right thing for me to do is allow her to address your concern about her private life. Exactly I haven't even surfaced yet....... |
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I see the women here don't like my nature.......
Thanks sweetheart....... 
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As to clear things up on here.....I used to be minglers member in 2007 I was recruited to go to the other site....I actually had a profile that is floating on here but I forgot the password ...... I like to discuss human nature in all it's complexities...... I do have a guy I'm dating and he is a bore...and I tried to break up with him and he wasn't having it..... Me dating his friend was just a joke..... I am single because we still are in the dating phase....... Hope that clears somethings up...... Thanks for the clarification, Tanz... I hope you and your guy come to an understanding that you are happier with... Best regards...
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Thu 06/19/14 07:01 AM
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I just think he might get exciting.....it can be possible.... well if he's normal (unlike us) you might want to hang on to him and see how things develop. |
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Personally, I think the disrespect started with his refusal to let her go. Maybe his goodies are better than Tanzy14 might suspect. The woman is not the only prize in a relationship, it takes two to make a good one. Somebody might just end up regretting that 90 Day rule might. Even Lent only lasts for 40 days 
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As to clear things up on here.....I used to be minglers member in 2007 I was recruited to go to the other site....I actually had a profile that is floating on here but I forgot the password ......
I like to discuss human nature in all it's complexities...... I do have a guy I'm dating and he is a bore...and I tried to break up with him and he wasn't having it..... Me dating his friend was just a joke..... I am single because we still are in the dating phase....... Hope that clears somethings up...... |
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Personally, I think the disrespect started with his refusal to let her go. Maybe his goodies are better than Tanzy14 might suspect. The woman is not the only prize in a relationship, it takes two to make a good one. Somebody might just end up regretting that 90 Day rule might. Even Lent only lasts for 40 days
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Personally, I think the disrespect started with his refusal to let her go. Maybe his goodies are better than Tanzy14 might suspect. The woman is not the only prize in a relationship, it takes two to make a good one. Somebody might just end up regretting that 90 Day rule might. Even Lent only lasts for 40 days
Exactly.....if you don't have chemistry you don't have nothing..... |
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If there's no chemistry and yet he refuses to let her go. Might I suggest that a restraining order should be the next course of action?
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