Is there a particular reason why he doesn't choose to take you along with him? You may have 3 kids but there are babysitters, and the time invested in your husband would at least be contributing to a healthy relationship where boredom would not be a factor any longer.

I have zero interest in watching him and his mates get drunk

Why, what else do you want to know?

Anyone who's interviewed for a job understands the power of first impressions.
This is the main function of the profile- an at-a-glance general feel for a person
Whom you've never met before in your life and (in your case) might live in another
Country.

What would you expect people to assume reading you up for the first time?
That you're married with kids? Boring people need not apply?
Are you bored with your marriage? I could further dissect but won't. Perhaps you
Should help us understand rather than remain ambiguous and complain about
'Passing judgement' this is rate my profile right? Am I in the right place?

Are there any other interests either of you share with each other? If there is "zero interest in his activities" and he has "zero interest in yours" then sounds like there is no common ground...especially if it's causing you that much boredom.

It isn't that. It's the fact that his job is a tough one so we only get maybe one night a week together. Do I not get adult conversation because he has a job>?

If you were looking for simply "adult" conversation, that would be one thing; most people do not consider dating a member of the opposite sex necessary to having an adult conversation, say with friends and family. You are here for dating...not chatting buddies, according to your profile that is. The fact that you believe your husband would never find out about what you are doing shows a different intent. JMHO

Sometimes secrets make life better and if I happen to do anything I shouldnt, confessing wud not make anyone's life better

Ahhhh, yes, well hope there are no bitter consequences for you in store and enjoy yourself.

I know how to hide my tracks

I don't do cheaters.....and no one likes to watch people to get drunk...

WOMAN'S TEXTS TO HER EX THREATEN HER MARRIAGE
By Abigail Van Buren 22 hours ago Dear Abby

DEAR ABBY: I'm a twice-divorced woman who found my present husband late in life. I'm in my early 60s, and my husband is in his 70s. We married quickly because I didn't want to be alone in life and I thought I loved him.

My husband works while I stay at home because of a medical condition. Because I get bored, I spend some of my time communicating with and texting male friends from the past and one of my ex-husbands.

We have fun texting and sometimes it goes a little beyond that. I realize I am married and my ex is engaged, but how harmful can this be? I don't think I'm hurting anyone, and it helps the day go by.

Is this considered cheating? I don't think it is because my ex and I live in different states and the chances of us ever getting together again are slim to none. -- PASSING TIME

DEAR PASSING TIME: This isn't harmless fun; it's a threat to your marriage. Whether I consider it cheating is beside the point. Whether your husband and your ex's fiancee would consider it cheating is the question. If they got wind of your "pastime," I suspect both would be hurt, angry and feel violated. Not only that, you could lose Husband No. 3.

Your husband has my sympathies.

I'm not sure how anyone with 3 kids has time to become bored.

While you're profile says little, it speaks volumes of your true intentions by the mere fact that you're on a dating site looking for someone to ease the boredom, despite your protest to the contrary.

If you don't work outside the home, perhaps you should, or do some volunteer work, or spend the time getting to know your kids, or get some counseling for yourself. Risking your marriage, hurting your husband and putting yours kids through the upset and pain should you get caught just because you're bored is selfish, self centered, and cruel.

You do realise that half.of the people on here who.claim to be single are married!? And it is funny how certain guys upon being rejected are quick to jump in here and show their disgust at what I do when previously they have been enquiring about how easy my underwear comes off!
And again I put the question out there, if a certain thing is missing, despite hundreds of conversations about.it, do I just give in and say 'oh well, goodbye sex!'?

Wow did you really just compare that to.mine!? I suggest maybe some.more life experience before making further comments

So anyway, my initial question please lol

omg im really not. Do I look that bad????

Put better pics on

I dont mind. I wanted an honest answer. Guys on here are too quick to say im perfect so that they can get some. I want you to be brutally honest with me x

Hi Marrie claire.. and welcome.
2m2.. where you can have. complete strangers.. pass judgment upon you.
just for the asking..lmao.. I think your profile is fine.. it states exactly what you're looking for.. wish you all the best of luck. and as long as you are willing. to live with whatever consequences.. go along with..
. seeking. conversation . and whatever else.. floats your boat..
... then power to you..
. nothing wrong with being lonely.
. and seeking out companionship..
. if you're not getting it at home.
.. I suppose this is a little safer than.
going out your front door and having an actual affair...