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hi . i know woman and we start chat is old then me and is have kids . and is live far of me . and is all is good with her only evry weekend in the week she like ignore me a bit is not have time for me like always...
and i was think if they out having fun in nightclub and drunk and cheat of me . she always said is never cheat on me but to be honest evry weekend i start think negative of her i need help of ppl more experience in this and what i must do ????? and it's my first experience in chat online |
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You seem to be investing a lot of emotion (jealousy), into an online, long distance relationship.
It isn't like you are actually seeing each other, and she disappears every weekend. When you meet and chat with someone online, it's unlikely that they will change their lifestyle,routine, etc. Just relax a bit, and don't let jealousy overwhelm you. Good luck. |
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Flirt globally, date locally.
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Just my 2�
I am more busy in the evenings and especially on the weekends with having kids.. there is always something that needs to be done. I rarely get a chance to relax or sit down |
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You seem to be investing a lot of emotion (jealousy), into an online, long distance relationship. It isn't like you are actually seeing each other, and she disappears every weekend. When you meet and chat with someone online, it's unlikely that they will change their lifestyle,routine, etc. Just relax a bit, and don't let jealousy overwhelm you. Good luck. yeah just the rhythm with her is make me think negative in times whn she away of me i think i have alot to learn in relationships online i will try be like her is the better way for know how i feel and i see what she will do with this. as not sure cuz at end its only words nothing more and thank u mr :) |
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Just my 2� I am more busy in the evenings and especially on the weekends with having kids.. there is always something that needs to be done. I rarely get a chance to relax or sit down i think its sound like i make her busy and not have time for relax as i dont push her to be with me or chat with me but why in weekend idk as ther all the week for can have relax after the work or idk why exatly in in the weekend ! and maybe u have right to but i think i will not stress my self of this chating online i will be more relaxing and make her feel i am not intrest anymore and thnx :) |
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I dread to think what you would be like in real life
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Who is she?
There's a broad who comes over every weekend and shags my brains out. Then she goes home on Sunday night. It's not cheating if she takes her toothbrush home with her. |
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I dread to think what you would be like in real life Right! |
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Who is she? There's a broad who comes over every weekend and shags my brains out. Then she goes home on Sunday night. It's not cheating if she takes her toothbrush home with her. probably yes tbh i will not stress my self anymore :D as i am muslim and she is christian i am not counter other religion but i think here the different ?? |
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. I'm not sure!! what are you trying to say... is it that you are chatting with somebody online.. and then on the weekends there not available to chat.
.hmm.. is it called having a life.. . you know I'm sure you have one. .. when she has time she chats. when she doesn't she doesn't.. .. like if you are dating her in real life. ... and she's never available on the weekends.. and you knew she was going out clubbing with her friends.. . would you not break up with her. . just saying.. move on.. |
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hi . i know woman and we start chat is old then me and is have kids . and is live far of me . and is all is good with her only evry weekend in the week she like ignore me a bit is not have time for me like always... and i was think if they out having fun in nightclub and drunk and cheat of me . she always said is never cheat on me but to be honest evry weekend i start think negative of her i need help of ppl more experience in this and what i must do ????? and it's my first experience in chat online Sorry, trying to understand what you are saying, but not getting it. |
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Have you ever met her in person?
Did you both talk and decide to be in an exclusive relationship? If not, then what she does with her time has nothing to do with you, your not her boyfriend. |
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Mon 06/02/14 06:38 PM
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i will be more relaxing and make her feel i am not intrest anymore and thnx :) Yes! Yes!..and you said you haven't done this before....somebodys been messaging you privately? Remember, There is only one thing a woman ever wants, one thing! And thats what she can't have, thats the only thing a woman wants. We are victoms of our our creation NEXT victim please.... |
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I dread to think what you would be like in real life Well a think if he was rolling her eyeballs in the back of her head then maybe he would feel more secure...works for me. |
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Dude. Time to move on.
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she;s just busy with her kids, and she probably has other real life commitments with family and friends. :)
you might try the clubs yourself :) |
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Use the word "is" MORE often, if its not an inconvenience
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If there is not a commitment established, cheating is a big accusation.
According to you, she's older, far away, has family to care for and is a completely different religion. All of those things combined can make it difficult to find common ground. You think she should have free time during the weekend. Often that's not the case. There could be chores or projects around the house that need attention. Children's sports or other activities. Any number of things. Have you tried asking her? In any case, instead of assigning blame, take a look at yourself and the situation. With her or anyone, are you secure in yourself? Are you a person who can trust in others or always suspicious? Have you made any effort to try to understand her perspective? In several important aspects of life? Wish you the best in finding what you are looking for. |
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hi . i know woman and we start chat is old then me and is have kids . and is live far of me . and is all is good with her only evry weekend in the week she like ignore me a bit is not have time for me like always... and i was think if they out having fun in nightclub and drunk and cheat of me . she always said is never cheat on me but to be honest evry weekend i start think negative of her i need help of ppl more experience in this and what i must do ????? and it's my first experience in chat online Sorry, trying to understand what you are saying, but not getting it. hi . i summary the subject and i say what is important and i think most is understand sry if u not |
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