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Topic: the human condition
2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Wed 05/28/14 08:23 PM
so as in not a need to be wanted but rather it nice to be needed, and if not, then it's fine as long as you enjoy your own company and if not, it can be tolerated or altered according to the individual or individuals depending on the situation. confused myself a bit there lol Snickers*

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Wed 05/28/14 08:23 PM
I fear dying alone...I need companionship. Welcome to Mingle2 Awww.. that's nice

petemcl Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 662	Wed 05/28/14 08:24 PM
I fear dying alone...I need companionship. Welcome to Mingle2 Awww.. that's nice

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 05/28/14 08:27 PM Edited by kc0003 on Wed 05/28/14 08:31 PM
Not exactly. There is something much more meaningful/gratifying when your partner doesn't need you to affirm their existence, but rather, chooses you to enhance it.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Wed 05/28/14 08:30 PM
Not exactly. There is something much more meaningful when your partner doesn't need you to affirm their existence, but rather, chooses you to enhance it. Good Point.... very true.

petemcl Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 662	Wed 05/28/14 08:35 PM
Not exactly. There is something much more meaningful/gratifying when your partner doesn't need you to affirm their existence, but rather, chooses you to enhance it. it's like a bonus to each others lives. i feel like a relationship is like one complete person. two halves creating a whole new being. so i try to find someone who is everything i'm not, then together we are one.

petemcl Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 662	Wed 05/28/14 08:36 PM
but then again this is only my nineteenth post.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 05/28/14 08:38 PM
but then again this is only my nineteenth post. I will not hold that against you...

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 05/28/14 08:39 PM
Not exactly. There is something much more meaningful/gratifying when your partner doesn't need you to affirm their existence, but rather, chooses you to enhance it. it's like a bonus to each others lives. i feel like a relationship is like one complete person. two halves creating a whole new being. so i try to find someone who is everything i'm not, then together we are one. agreed.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Wed 05/28/14 08:43 PM
Well I'm mesmerized... ( wonders if I spelled that right ) I dig smart peeps... Time for me to dive in my bubbles... Happy Mingling.

petemcl Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 662	Wed 05/28/14 08:45 PM
but then again this is only my nineteenth post. I will not hold that against you... thank you,

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 05/28/14 08:52 PM Edited by kc0003 on Wed 05/28/14 09:22 PM
Well I'm mesmerized... ( wonders if I spelled that right ) I dig smart peeps... Time for me to dive in my bubbles... Happy Mingling. shut up! (you know i'm joking, right?) enjoy the suds!!!

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 05/28/14 08:54 PM
but then again this is only my nineteenth post. I will not hold that against you... thank you, by the way....welcome

Ouizee Joined Sat 08/18/12 Posts: 4080	Wed 05/28/14 09:18 PM
There is something much more meaningful/gratifying when your partner doesn't need you to affirm their existence, but rather, chooses you to enhance it. Very well said as in "My life is better with you in it!"