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Back seeing someone after being apart for about 7 months. Roller coaster relationship. After a few really nice dates & long talks I thought we were starting over and all was going to be good again. Then he deletes all of his social media sites with the reason being he doesn't want the drama anymore.(or so he says he deleted them). Fine with me except that was about 70% of the way we communicated. Trying to talk to him or even text him is almost impossible because of ourconflicting schedules. Haven't seen him now in about 7 weeks and when I try to contact him ,its always short and he turns it into random things instead of about us. This 3 day weekend was the kicker as I thought he was having his children, come to find out he did'nt have them and was off work. No time for me though, not even a texted conversation. When I tried...no response. Next morning "sorry I was sleeping don't worry.. nothings wrong".
 Am I over reacting...just opinions please?? |
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girl sounds like hes just not into you. JK .
look i here this all the time from my woman friends. you need to find a man that will put you first. or at least be moor upfrount with what is goingon in his life. sounds like he needs to man up. good luck..... |
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He sounds like a very complicated man. May be you should count your blessings he has shown his true self to you before the relationship moved much deeper. He sounds like some one who emotionally manipulates others.
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He can't come right and say it so he's showing you in every way possible. He is not interested in pursuing this relationship. I'm very sorry for your pain.
  It will pass. I promise.
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Back seeing someone after being apart for about 7 months. Roller coaster relationship. After a few really nice dates & long talks I thought we were starting over and all was going to be good again. Then he deletes all of his social media sites with the reason being he doesn't want the drama anymore.(or so he says he deleted them). Fine with me except that was about 70% of the way we communicated. Trying to talk to him or even text him is almost impossible because of ourconflicting schedules. Haven't seen him now in about 7 weeks and when I try to contact him ,its always short and he turns it into random things instead of about us. This 3 day weekend was the kicker as I thought he was having his children, come to find out he did'nt have them and was off work. No time for me though, not even a texted conversation. When I tried...no response. Next morning "sorry I was sleeping don't worry.. nothings wrong". Am I over reacting...just opinions please?? No, you're not over reacting, you're in denial... ....
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Not only are you not a priority young lady... you're not even on the option list.
I would suggest moving on. Were I in your situation, I doubt I would even bother informing her of that fact. Good luck. 
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.. everyone above me is probably right..are. he could just be suffering from social burnout.. at a point texting.. and over. wifi communication. become tedious..
.. you just get tired of typing down your thoughts.. just a thought..hmm. .. you know what its like! when too many people want to talk to you.. . you just want to turn off and chill out..hmm.. |
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Not only are you not a priority young lady... you're not even on the option list. I would suggest moving on. Were I in your situation, I doubt I would even bother informing her of that fact. Good luck. This. |
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Your thread title answers any questions you have.
Read it out loud three times, then do your own deleting... |
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Your thread title answers any questions you have. Read it out loud three times, then do your own deleting... Stop the cycle... You deserve better treatment. |
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I think you nailed it yourself. he deleted the method of communicating with you. he didnt consult with you about it, just clearly doesnt care about what you need. he is not the one. you are the one for a better man. get a findin him. ^^^ This |
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I dont think he's complicated. just selfish. Probly not a bad person either, just not a match for anyone who wants communication. he has decided for you both that 'nothings wrong' again without consulting you. If you want a partnership, its not this guy. ^^^ And this. Sorry...you deserve better...
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No, you're not over reacting, you're in denial... .... Denial is a nice place. I've been there. They have very comfy sofas and cookies. If you stay too long though it turns into Hotel California. 
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Just_lookin is right...you aren't a priority Dawnette...otherwise this dude would make an effort. Sounds to me like he's hiding something from you also...deleting all his social media sites. You deserve better, don't waste your time...move on.
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Edited by
lake17
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Mon 05/26/14 01:39 PM
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"don't worry, nothing's wrong" Was that in reply to your asking if there was something wrong, or did he just say it?
If you didn't ask him that, I'd say--well, even with you asking--there is something wrong, and it's him probably wanting to fade away. I think you're not compatible. You want more interaction and he is either unable or unwilling to meet that desire. He, evidently, does not need that kind or that much interaction as you do and I'm guessing you're not comfortable with as little as he is. |
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Very good advice Thanks all. Yep I'm finally moving on
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