It's says G I have to many messages and won't let me text anyone. How do I fix this?

HOW DO I IM?
First, you must have YOUR 'Instant Messaging' turned ON:
http://mingle2.com/user/enable_im
(Or >>My Account>>Settings>>Turn ON IM)

Then you would go to the profile of the person with whom you wish to chat.

Under their picture there is an orange button 'Instant Message' which you would click on and the request to Instant Message is sent.

If there is no orange button labeled 'Instant Message' it could mean one of two things.

The person does NOT have 'Instant Messaging' turned ON. (In which case you could email them and request they turn it ON.)

Or, the person is in 'Stealth Mode.'
http://mingle2.com/user/toggle_stealth_mode

NOTE: The mobile site has NO Instant Messenger.

Ohh. I thought this was hi I'm new here..
. but it turns out! its Hi I'm new here and need help.. ..
.hi. and welcome.
.2m2..

Hello Vivian
Welcome to Mingle and good luck

Uh, are you sure that you aren't reading one of the advertisements that appear at the top of your screen? Some of those ads are for other dating sites, and sometimes they will say that you have messages.

Welcome to Mingle2

Hello Vivian
Welcome to M2