Topic: ARE YOU A GIVER OR A TAKER? WHY?
Queene123's photo
Thu 05/22/14 01:40 PM
im deffently a giver

that can explain why
many have tried to
walk all over me

not any more
im standing my grounds
but yet give on my terms
when needed...

i have a heart made of gold


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Thu 05/22/14 01:42 PM
Edited by JOHNN111 on Thu 05/22/14 01:43 PM
I have an over abundance so I'll give till it's "expected"... then it's all over but the cryin lol


I'll only take(if offered) if I'm not capable of supplying it for myself!

Ericbans's photo
Thu 05/22/14 01:48 PM
U a giver or a taker it depends on the way we look at it. Naturally Men are givers. my own case, i give more and receive a little. I will not stop giving cos givers don't lack. :-)

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 05/22/14 01:49 PM
Both. Because balance is the key.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 05/22/14 01:51 PM
Adult female Humans have told me that I give good loving. bigsmile

ubanaego's photo
Thu 05/22/14 01:55 PM
All you givers, can I hold $20 real quick..yeah thats what I thought. happy

ubanaego's photo
Thu 05/22/14 01:55 PM
Fair enough answer. Sounds more honest than bunch of givers here.

graywolf55's photo
Thu 05/22/14 02:10 PM

All you givers, can I hold $20 real quick..yeah thats what I thought. happy
:tongue: You wasn't quick enough, let it slide right through them fingers!!laugh That's what i figured" not quick witted enough to "close fingers"!! laugh Lesson for today (sarcasm) usually gets you ignored!!smokin devil

panchovanilla's photo
Thu 05/22/14 03:54 PM

Used to be a giver, a pleaser, eternal helper, mostly at my own expense.
Now I got healthier borders so if I give, it's okay, I don't overdo anymore. I've also learnt to receive when given, whether it's material or a compliment.
Just like MsHarmony I feel that asking for things is somewhat more difficult still, although I do do it at times. Depends on what it's about I guess.

Must say I find it typical that everyone says he/she's a giver, as if there's something wrong with taking? Both giving and taking can be wrong and hurtful to yourself (and others) if there is no inner balance. Seems to me that ppl think it looks better to say they're a giver and saying you're a taker means you're selfish.
flowerforyou

@ TXSgal, what a nice piccie you got up!

Nope...I just really don't like taking. Maybe I've known too many takers and refuse to be anything like them.
I don't even take a poop.
I will give one though.

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Thu 05/22/14 04:02 PM

A Giver!!!!because Giving IS Recieving...

See it gives me pleasure to see his eyes roll back and..
wait what??surprised


Apparently missed the PG13 memo...lol

Goofball73's photo
Thu 05/22/14 07:05 PM
I learned that if you give.....and get her off.....oh wait....wait.....oh yeah....we don't have a sex thread anymore. :tongue: laugh

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Thu 05/22/14 07:43 PM
Im a giver...

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 05/22/14 07:49 PM

Im a giver...


Yeah, but what do you give? :wink:

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Thu 05/22/14 08:36 PM


A Giver!!!!because Giving IS Recieving...

See it gives me pleasure to see his eyes roll back and..
wait what??surprised


Apparently missed the PG13 memo...lol


blushing laugh


Hiii(((((sweets~possegirl))))flowerforyou waving

1j9b6c5's photo
Thu 05/22/14 08:40 PM
2K is a giver 'cause she gives me an er---ror message on my laptop.

no1phD's photo
Thu 05/22/14 08:40 PM
.. I don't mind giving.. and taking at the same time.
...69..er..:wink: ..
... WHAT!!. O..COME ON. WHO HERE HASN'T GIVEN AND TAKEN AT THE SAME TIME..
..laugh flowerforyou

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 05/22/14 08:45 PM
I thought this was about the give and take in a realtionship. Was the question about material possessions? I'm confused. As usual. ohwell

1j9b6c5's photo
Thu 05/22/14 08:49 PM

I thought this was about the give and take in a realtionship. Was the question about material possessions? I'm confused. As usual. ohwell
I believe you're right on the first score. We have a collective short attention span.

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 05/22/14 08:52 PM

Cause I'm a Giver
And I'm a Taker
I'm a lover
earth mover and shaker
I play my music in the sun

I'm a joker
An ex-smoker
I'm a midnight toker
I sure don't want to hurt no one

Changed some words to protect the innocent...



Now I have this song stuck in my head.

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 05/22/14 08:56 PM


I thought this was about the give and take in a realtionship. Was the question about material possessions? I'm confused. As usual. ohwell
I believe you're right on the first score. We have a collective short attention span.


laugh

I wasn't referring to the sudden turn towards sexual innuendoes. It wouldn't be mingle without those. laugh