Ok, just gonna vent for a sec. I haven't been in many relationships...the ones I have been in have been like riding an emotional roller coaster. Is there anyone out there who considers the fact that if you just both put the needs of your lover first, things may actually work out? I have always seemed to be the one giving...gets old. I want someone willing to give thier all too. I don't want much...just to be loved and shown that I'm loved and appreciated. When I love someone I give them my all. Maybe that's the problem. Sometimes I wish I could be a player...but that's just not who I am. Sorry for being a downer tonight. I'm normally very upbeat. But I have my moments.

Takes two to tango. One person doing all the work in the "relationship" is not a "relationship". It's a hope at the very least, but nevertheless is not a relationship. Keep your chin up, I'm in the same boat with reverse rolls on this level. He's out there, just gotta keep fighting for him. All the trouble and heartache you'll see in the mean time will just make it that much greater when you find the man you're needing.

Well said...tks cowboy :).

just keep being yourself and do the right things. ultimately we have to be able to live with ourselves, our consciences...it sounds like you have one. I hope you will meet someone else who also does

Tks...
I always try to do what's right. I always try my best to consider what the other person is dealing with and so on...always lookong for the best in a person. I just hope to find someone who will do the same one day.

good luck. I hope you will also Given those boys a questionnaire BEFORE the first date

A handy hint. Avoid men who ask these questions:

'Does true love really exist?',
'Love vs Money',
'Does distance matter?',
'What do women really want?',
'Why can't I find a decent woman?'.............


I could go on and on. Yawn. mopey men aren't good company to have around ;)