i agree. It's a great topic.

i reckon men TALK about sex so much because they aren't HAVING sex...and since they have probably already eaten before logging on, food isn't on their minds. just one feller's opinion.

btw, i see this same question raised in many, many redundant threads and always thought they were ironically inciting men to talk about sex.

stop the madness - ask a different question!

..aww. that hurts.. we don't pay them to talk.. ..jk..

OK, so, why DON'T men talk about sex

Men you say? I beg to differ. A man romances his LOVED ONE with passion and a tender loving hand. A boy has sex/talks bout sex.

And a Bible in the other

talk about sex don't talk about sex

i reckon they don't talk about it for the same reason they don't talk about big juicy cheeseburgers when stranded in the wild without food. if you can't get a little taste, what's the use?

Fancy mentioning cheeseburgers, I'm hungry now

I just find it laughable when women on these sites try to get me to sex chat with themso that they can tell me how horny that I'm getting them when they're more interested in doing that than just making a date.

??? What's that got to do with the discussion we're having. There is a time and a place my friend. And don't think while in the bedroom in that form of way would be specifically a good time to be doing anything with the bible or even have that form of thought.

But hey, guess whatever works for people lol.

You do the hokey pokey and you turn yourself around....

Well I guess it's because it's what a lot of guys think about often and the internet is a safe place for them to let it out. But not all guys are like that so just keep on looking and you should come across some nice guys.

Lighten up Jesus, I was joking

I talk about sex quite often with friends and when I do that it's nothing more than just chatting about what I've been up to recently. My best friend is female and she doesn't mind it. We talk about all sorts of things.

I'm not really into cybering and I doubt that gets many women to actually put out but for sure talking about it on a date can get them in the mood, or lead to a bit of passion. I don't see what's so immature about that. You could just as well say that boys are too awkward or shy to chat up women and a man doesn't lack that sort of confidence.

nice to see you up here with some great insights

I tend to agree with this. They are either men from that type of environment, perverts, or teenagers out for a laugh

block & delete are wonderful things :)

Here's the thing. A guy goes on a dating site and he's looking for a woman. You look at all of the profiles and most aren't going to have much in common with you in terms of interests and things to chat about. That's assuming that they even say anything much about that on their profiles and most can't even seem to be bothered to tell you their marital status. Then there's the fact that the ones that want to chat rarely want to do anything else and that's a waste of time. All I really want to know is if they fancy me and want to meet. If they do I'm quite happy to get to know them properly. If they don't it's a pointless waste of time.

I like Tawt's answer, and that does seem to be a factor.

Also, if we talk about sports. Usually seems that we lose interest from the women. At least has been my experience.

I have thought long and hard, on this subject.
There is only one logical explaination.
They are horny.
Guys all get horny, at one time or another.
We don't ALL talk about it.
Personally...I like to keep it a secret.
Don't get me wrong...I can be as pervy as the next guy,
but I control myself, unless a woman initiates the perving.

Guys, try to remember this.
When you message a lady, and tell her all the nasty little things you want to do with her,
just remember...
This could be what is actually who you are communicating with.


Still horny????