its funny.. how i seem to help women with issues and get them feeling good about themselves but i feel like a nobody ...

no matter how nice i am, I'm always getting hurt one way or another..

I'm going to be blunt.
Wallowing in self pity does absolutely no good for anyone.
We all get down, now and then.
But only you can change your perspective on life.

. yeah Stephen..
. maybe it's time for you to climb on down of that cross your on.. somebody else needs the wood...
.. go and post a topic about something positive.
. like who here likes to pull the wings of butterflys... ..jk.. I'm just kidding.. about the butterfly Part..

we all have been hert dude..heck i just smashed my hand working on my car..it sucks...lol...were all glad your getting your 15 min of fame...

We keep telling you to be positive. Maybe just say hi. Start a conversation.
It's actually not so hard. A couple of days ago my car had issues and it had to be towed to my mechanic.s garage.
Safety first, I notified my mechanic, brother and our friend where I was and what time to expect my arrival at the shop, since I was going to have to ride with the tow truck driver.
So we struck up a conversation. After all it's not his fault I'm upset about what's going on with my car.
And it really wasn't all that difficult. You know things like what do you like about your job. How do you like this weather we're having. The subject of lottery tickets came up. We talked about what we would each do of we won. He has ideas for big projects and so do I. But those are some ideas

believe me.. I'm trying to be positive but what good is that doing me anyway? I never get messaged by real women on here.. i never got approached by women.. I'm gonna be 30 in august and I never had a long-term relationship with any women.. the relationships i have had with those 2 women, they hurt me no matter how nice or kind i was to them.. Do women really want bad *****?.. I mean I listen to rebel rock n roll.. if thats what they want.. hell I'll change into that type..

Ouch. Guess I don't count as a real woman. Or any of the other ladies who have responded to your posts on the forums trying to give you encouraging words.
All that aside, love yourself. Be positive. That attracts more people

Dito

Be as blunt as you like, he won't listen...Which is why we have literally the same thread repeated over and over and over and over and over and...

Stephen, why dont you come play the games in the forums?

I think he has already started

Do some soul searching ;)

I understand how stephen feels... but I think klc said it best.

Just be yourself, not who you think a woman wants you to be. I hope this helps.

Thats not what I mean. I meant I keep getting private messages from women I never messaged first and also most of them are looking for money through marriage.. its creepy.. thats the kinda messages I get and its annoying.. i really appreciate your advice. Dont take what I said the wrong way