I feel like we are a dying 'breed'...
When did Cougars become so highly
sought after, like its a game?

when they became liberated...

Lol... is it???

Hey Delta Dawn
what's that mechanism you got on
could it be a porcelain penis from days gone by.
well did I here you grunt when you stuck it forgot the lyrics
the 70's was a while ago.

So what's your take, abstinence?
haven't you ever been horny?
so potentially people could rush into a marriage
for sex and just think they love each other but the guy
may just be confused by hormones.
I don't think that would work for the majority of people.

I am going to state an inconvenient truth:
People can control their sexual impulses.

My late wife and I waited until after we were married before engaging in sexual intercourse.

Anyone still believe in NOT having sex outside of marriage?



I do....I think everyone should have sex before they marry

If by control your are referring to intercource abstinence then yes people can abstain.What happens if after the nuptials consummate their marriage and she says "what's wrong..you never act like this"
"I just had an odd feeling for 20min after sex that I hated your guts " but that's when you should have felt closest to me.
(Man feel guilty and shameful) maybe your not the girl for me.
Well don't worry babe the feeling has pased.
The woman in my family are very fertile and we probably will
never have to do this again.
"Don't meeeess with me..cause I'm a missionary woman"
and my work is done here anyways.
GUY: well I guess I will cheat my faith and resort
to self-abuse from now on ..I'm left no choice.

Three days later man looks down and says "something is missing
What are these scares..hey wait a minute.. They took that too
"God dam apes...dam you are to HEEEEElllll"

Dude, there was nothing wrong with my late wife and I waiting until after our wedding to have sexual intercourse.

To each his own.
That's all I have to say about it.

Although, if I wait for marriage, I might as well join a monastery.

Pony Boy,
ur comments don't hold much water with me, just because I don't even want to say your name in the light of day. making love is a beautiful one amazing facet of a healthy relationship with many dimensions , and it seems you have perverted it to suit you. whatever works. I am looking for a man who can show some respect and is liberated enough to want to get to know ALL about me- not just explore my anatomy. but thanks for sharing your (in my opinion)inconsiderate and denigrating thoughts with us.that's a lucky lady who will keep you company.

Dodo_David:thank u for posting respectfully, even though you may not agree with others' posts. I appreciate your integrity and maturity!

lol!! argo63 ;)

Poncho:
I agree with you- to each his own.I won't judge or denigrade anyone who thinks differently than I do.
I know!Sometimes I do feel as though perhaps I have condemned myself to eternal singledom- although I have dated men who were aware of and respectful of my position. that doesn't mean he was a poor gent who didn't taste passion, and that he and I didn't play!!
but I made a promise in a dark time in my life, after all the consequences of pre-marital sex finally caught up to me.
Especially in spring, and having spring fever like crrrrazy, I wonder, but...deep in the depths of my soul, I want to be with a man who will work on building the elements in a relationship that will help it to last. Since I can't have a guarantee of forever, I want to do everything I possibly can to prevent going through another divorce- the most painful, heart-wrenching and life-altering experience.

I say have sex when you and you significant other both decide that it is time to shag......and shag often baby! Yeah!