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teebee79
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I have been dating since, I thought I was dating at 13 years old!
I've at most times been the aggressor.... sometimes the pursued. I often got the guy I wanted... sometimes, I didn't, a few times I wish I hadn't! 
Through these many years of dating, I've come to the realization that these guys never had to truly " WORK" to get to know me.. or date me. I was by no means " easy" but I can see now, I didn't get the respect I was due in my relationships... with the exception of the ex husband, He's a great guy! Anywho... No, at the SWEET age of 41, this is what I want. I'm no longer taking, as they use to say " shorts" I want it all!! 3 days notice before asking me out... flowers when you pick me up for a date... mandatory open my door.. he pays for the date... I want it all! I know what I have to offer... and the time of courting will be nothing in the end, compared to what I have to offer the right person! What about you Ladies and Gentleman? Ladies are you holding out for the full courtship, making sure you receive the respect you are due? Guys, would you perfer a lady who is truly a lady and allow you to pursue her. Does this garnish more respect from you? Ps. For my "Go get em' "Ladies, who prefer to do the chasing... Keep doing you, hon! This idea of courtship is how i'm feeling and what I want to receive. |
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I often got the guy I wanted... sometimes, I didn't, a few times I wish I hadn't!
That is because you were dating Humans, not Melmacians. 
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I often got the guy I wanted... sometimes, I didn't, a few times I wish I hadn't!
That is because you were dating Humans, not Melmacians.
Well, don't dangle the carrot if I can't partake, Melmacian! 
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I often got the guy I wanted... sometimes, I didn't, a few times I wish I hadn't!
That is because you were dating Humans, not Melmacians.
Well, don't dangle the carrot if I can't partake, Melmacian!
 
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Hell....I want it all too. Three days notice.....when the panties will fall....a pre-nup.....bank accounts.....and a boat. Oh yes....she needs to buy me a boat.
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Hell....I want it all too. Three days notice.....when the panties will fall....a pre-nup.....bank accounts.....and a boat. Oh yes....she needs to buy me a boat.
no boat
how about home made cookies instead 
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I have been dating since, I thought I was dating at 13 years old! I've at most times been the aggressor.... sometimes the pursued. I often got the guy I wanted... sometimes, I didn't, a few times I wish I hadn't!
Through these many years of dating, I've come to the realization that these guys never had to truly " WORK" to get to know me.. or date me. I was by no means " easy" but I can see now, I didn't get the respect I was due in my relationships... with the exception of the ex husband, He's a great guy! Anywho... No, at the SWEET age of 41, this is what I want. I'm no longer taking, as they use to say " shorts" I want it all!! 3 days notice before asking me out... flowers when you pick me up for a date... mandatory open my door.. he pays for the date... I want it all! I know what I have to offer... and the time of courting will be nothing in the end, compared to what I have to offer the right person! What about you Ladies and Gentleman? Ladies are you holding out for the full courtship, making sure you receive the respect you are due? Guys, would you perfer a lady who is truly a lady and allow you to pursue her. Does this garnish more respect from you? Ps. For my "Go get em' "Ladies, who prefer to do the chasing... Keep doing you, hon! This idea of courtship is how i'm feeling and what I want to receive. well TeeBee I hope you meet someone who will fulfill all of that. Some men wouldn't know what to do in that scenario which I think is kinda sad. I like some of that courtship mentality, especially taking some time to get to know me. Hook ups aren't happening....outside of that I am flexible about the rest.
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I have been dating since, I thought I was dating at 13 years old! I've at most times been the aggressor.... sometimes the pursued. I often got the guy I wanted... sometimes, I didn't, a few times I wish I hadn't!
Through these many years of dating, I've come to the realization that these guys never had to truly " WORK" to get to know me.. or date me. I was by no means " easy" but I can see now, I didn't get the respect I was due in my relationships... with the exception of the ex husband, He's a great guy! Anywho... No, at the SWEET age of 41, this is what I want. I'm no longer taking, as they use to say " shorts" I want it all!! 3 days notice before asking me out... flowers when you pick me up for a date... mandatory open my door.. he pays for the date... I want it all! I know what I have to offer... and the time of courting will be nothing in the end, compared to what I have to offer the right person! What about you Ladies and Gentleman? Ladies are you holding out for the full courtship, making sure you receive the respect you are due? Guys, would you perfer a lady who is truly a lady and allow you to pursue her. Does this garnish more respect from you? Ps. For my "Go get em' "Ladies, who prefer to do the chasing... Keep doing you, hon! This idea of courtship is how i'm feeling and what I want to receive. well TeeBee I hope you meet someone who will fulfill all of that. Some men wouldn't know what to do in that scenario which I think is kinda sad. I like some of that courtship mentality, especially taking some time to get to know me. Hook ups aren't happening....outside of that I am flexible about the rest.
Sweet u think your viewpoint was asked for?? Don't give it for free dear .. this thread is in a public forum and anyone can comment. I will say that you could benefit from your own advice |
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I have been dating since, I thought I was dating at 13 years old! I've at most times been the aggressor.... sometimes the pursued. I often got the guy I wanted... sometimes, I didn't, a few times I wish I hadn't!
Through these many years of dating, I've come to the realization that these guys never had to truly " WORK" to get to know me.. or date me. I was by no means " easy" but I can see now, I didn't get the respect I was due in my relationships... with the exception of the ex husband, He's a great guy! Anywho... No, at the SWEET age of 41, this is what I want. I'm no longer taking, as they use to say " shorts" I want it all!! 3 days notice before asking me out... flowers when you pick me up for a date... mandatory open my door.. he pays for the date... I want it all! I know what I have to offer... and the time of courting will be nothing in the end, compared to what I have to offer the right person! What about you Ladies and Gentleman? Ladies are you holding out for the full courtship, making sure you receive the respect you are due? Guys, would you perfer a lady who is truly a lady and allow you to pursue her. Does this garnish more respect from you? Ps. For my "Go get em' "Ladies, who prefer to do the chasing... Keep doing you, hon! This idea of courtship is how i'm feeling and what I want to receive. well TeeBee I hope you meet someone who will fulfill all of that. Some men wouldn't know what to do in that scenario which I think is kinda sad. I like some of that courtship mentality, especially taking some time to get to know me. Hook ups aren't happening....outside of that I am flexible about the rest.
Sweet u think your viewpoint was asked for?? Don't give it for free dear .. this thread is in a public forum and anyone can comment. I will say that you could benefit from your own advice Well said!!! Even I gave for free. .. lol
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I have been dating since, I thought I was dating at 13 years old! I've at most times been the aggressor.... sometimes the pursued. I often got the guy I wanted... sometimes, I didn't, a few times I wish I hadn't!
Through these many years of dating, I've come to the realization that these guys never had to truly " WORK" to get to know me.. or date me. I was by no means " easy" but I can see now, I didn't get the respect I was due in my relationships... with the exception of the ex husband, He's a great guy! Anywho... No, at the SWEET age of 41, this is what I want. I'm no longer taking, as they use to say " shorts" I want it all!! 3 days notice before asking me out... flowers when you pick me up for a date... mandatory open my door.. he pays for the date... I want it all! I know what I have to offer... and the time of courting will be nothing in the end, compared to what I have to offer the right person! What about you Ladies and Gentleman? Ladies are you holding out for the full courtship, making sure you receive the respect you are due? Guys, would you perfer a lady who is truly a lady and allow you to pursue her. Does this garnish more respect from you? Ps. For my "Go get em' "Ladies, who prefer to do the chasing... Keep doing you, hon! This idea of courtship is how i'm feeling and what I want to receive. well TeeBee I hope you meet someone who will fulfill all of that. Some men wouldn't know what to do in that scenario which I think is kinda sad. I like some of that courtship mentality, especially taking some time to get to know me. Hook ups aren't happening....outside of that I am flexible about the rest.
Sweet u think your viewpoint was asked for?? Don't give it for free dear .. this thread is in a public forum and anyone can comment. I will say that you could benefit from your own advice Well said!!! Even I gave for free. .. lol
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I have been dating since, I thought I was dating at 13 years old! I've at most times been the aggressor.... sometimes the pursued. I often got the guy I wanted... sometimes, I didn't, a few times I wish I hadn't!
Through these many years of dating, I've come to the realization that these guys never had to truly " WORK" to get to know me.. or date me. I was by no means " easy" but I can see now, I didn't get the respect I was due in my relationships... with the exception of the ex husband, He's a great guy! Anywho... No, at the SWEET age of 41, this is what I want. I'm no longer taking, as they use to say " shorts" I want it all!! 3 days notice before asking me out... flowers when you pick me up for a date... mandatory open my door.. he pays for the date... I want it all! I know what I have to offer... and the time of courting will be nothing in the end, compared to what I have to offer the right person! What about you Ladies and Gentleman? Ladies are you holding out for the full courtship, making sure you receive the respect you are due? Guys, would you perfer a lady who is truly a lady and allow you to pursue her. Does this garnish more respect from you? Ps. For my "Go get em' "Ladies, who prefer to do the chasing... Keep doing you, hon! This idea of courtship is how i'm feeling and what I want to receive. well TeeBee I hope you meet someone who will fulfill all of that. Some men wouldn't know what to do in that scenario which I think is kinda sad. I like some of that courtship mentality, especially taking some time to get to know me. Hook ups aren't happening....outside of that I am flexible about the rest.
Sweetest girl, I agree with you. Many guys don't know about things like this anymore. It's good to hope for courtship but also be flexible with options |
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I have been dating since, I thought I was dating at 13 years old! I've at most times been the aggressor.... sometimes the pursued. I often got the guy I wanted... sometimes, I didn't, a few times I wish I hadn't!
Through these many years of dating, I've come to the realization that these guys never had to truly " WORK" to get to know me.. or date me. I was by no means " easy" but I can see now, I didn't get the respect I was due in my relationships... with the exception of the ex husband, He's a great guy! Anywho... No, at the SWEET age of 41, this is what I want. I'm no longer taking, as they use to say " shorts" I want it all!! 3 days notice before asking me out... flowers when you pick me up for a date... mandatory open my door.. he pays for the date... I want it all! I know what I have to offer... and the time of courting will be nothing in the end, compared to what I have to offer the right person! What about you Ladies and Gentleman? Ladies are you holding out for the full courtship, making sure you receive the respect you are due? Guys, would you perfer a lady who is truly a lady and allow you to pursue her. Does this garnish more respect from you? Ps. For my "Go get em' "Ladies, who prefer to do the chasing... Keep doing you, hon! This idea of courtship is how i'm feeling and what I want to receive. well TeeBee I hope you meet someone who will fulfill all of that. Some men wouldn't know what to do in that scenario which I think is kinda sad. I like some of that courtship mentality, especially taking some time to get to know me. Hook ups aren't happening....outside of that I am flexible about the rest.
Sweetest girl, I agree with you. Many guys don't know about things like this anymore. It's good to hope for courtship but also be flexible with options So glad to hear that from ladies!!! |
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