It appears that most Men in this area in their 50's to 60's just
don't know what they want!!!! When do Men mature?

In my opinion,I believe it all depends on the person. I mean,I am only 27 and I believe I am mature for my age. Some people are just not ready to grow up.

This is going to sound totally silly, so I apologize right off the bat, but here's a thought.

What type of person are you? What type of men have you had relationships with before? The reason I'm asking this is perhaps you have always been the "mature" one in your relationships and you're just putting out the same vibes, thereby attracting the same style people, i.e. immature men.

My theory is pull back and ask yourself a couple of questions. A lot of time what we think we want, really would put our teeth on edge if we were around it all the time. Make sure someone who knows what they want and how they want their life to go is truly what you need and want. The other thing I've learned from watching my own patterns is make sure the person really acts the way they say they do. Some people, not just men, talk a good game and say all the words you wanna hear, but when it comes to the action to prove their words-------------------------------
they're off and runnin, so you end up with "Little Red Hen" syndrome if there is such a phrase.

Good luck!