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Edited by
MrE89UK
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Sun 04/20/14 11:29 AM
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To be honest I don't think a lot of them actually do know what they want. Many seem very lost hence singing up to a date site usually as a last resort for many. Have compassion for those lost causes, the poor little dears just want some attention..... awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww  That is not true... I don't want or need that kind of compassion nor am I a lost cause. I work and I'm a student, so my time is limited. what I do want is a man that can communicate with me. That can actually spell and construct sentences that make sense. I'm far from perfect, but simple communication goes a long way. I'm very happy with my life.. I just want someone to share ideas, share time with someone that loves to laugh and have fun. I'm far from desperate, I'm not lonely. Jeez.. Think about what you are implying. Why are you here?? Hmmm I sound mean but I had to put my 2 cents in. Please do not lump all of the women on here in one group, that is not fair. It would be like me saying that all of the men on here are scammers.   Hey sweetheart I wasn't lumping anyone in a pile. I just said a lot of those women, not all ok. You took it to heart and you seem to feel I was talking about you... I was talking about the women who are like this. If you got offended then you must feel one one level you are one of those women I described in my post or else why would you get offended. I think some men (notice I said some, and not - a lot) expect some sort of correspondence simply because they send a nudge or a message to a girl. I also think these same men need to grow up and stop throwing their toys out the pram. Yes, and before any smart a-s reminds me again that I'm gay, I already know and I really couldn't give a flying f--k what you think. It seems every time I reply to a topic that concerns men, then I get asked - errr your a dyke, what do you know? That's great oh I can tell you obviously don't care if guys think you are a lesbian or not I can completely see that. :) |
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You know what women want? Interest and consistency. Show interest and BE consistent!
Stay in shape... if you want a woman who is in shape, do the same. I would go to the gym while my stbx would eat a bag of chips+ per day...uggg |
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I think most woman that suscribe to a date site lack comunication skills or they they've got no megabite to stay current up to date so if u did shout on ur voice...hi...hello...how are u etc no one is gonna reply...
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To be honest I don't think a lot of them actually do know what they want. Many seem very lost hence singing up to a date site usually as a last resort for many. Have compassion for those lost causes, the poor little dears just want some attention..... awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww That is not true... I don't want or need that kind of compassion nor am I a lost cause. I work and I'm a student, so my time is limited. what I do want is a man that can communicate with me. That can actually spell and construct sentences that make sense. I'm far from perfect, but simple communication goes a long way. I'm very happy with my life.. I just want someone to share ideas, share time with someone that loves to laugh and have fun. I'm far from desperate, I'm not lonely. Jeez.. Think about what you are implying. Why are you here?? Hmmm I sound mean but I had to put my 2 cents in. Please do not lump all of the women on here in one group, that is not fair. It would be like me saying that all of the men on here are scammers. Hey sweetheart I wasn't lumping anyone in a pile. I just said a lot of those women, not all ok. You took it to heart and you seem to feel I was talking about you... I was talking about the women who are like this. If you got offended then you must feel one one level you are one of those women I described in my post or else why would you get offended. Well perhaps but I don't think either of us can prove that most women looking for a man on a date site know what they want exactly it was my opinion only. I believe I have been rejected, apart from examples when I was a teenager I am not picking up on any rejection later on via online means as how can I be rejected when I am not even looking. It takes two to tangle and it's great to get a compliment or what ever but the way I see it the right girl will appear when the time is right so I am not concerned about any form of rejection because it's obviously not meant to be and ultimately serves me well showing me that this person is not for me. |
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Well perhaps but I don't think either of us can prove that most women looking for a man on a date site know what they want exactly it was my opinion only. So, classically, men assume that women dont actually know what they want rather than accept that. Now now don't generalise and put all men into one basket or else you might get some woman holding a baby in her profile picture telling you how much it pisses her off lol I understand where you are coming from and you're correct in my opinion. When you connect and click you just do. The connection is such a huge part of attraction for me. I am the same I didn't know what I liked until she came along and blew me away. I was working from the mind but it is the heart we should follow. I did know what I wanted basically a loyal, humble, reserved positive girl etc... and I have it now but it's long distance and extremely testing for me/us. But we love each other beyond words obviously we have met in real life etc... Women think they know what is attractive generally but if they find a guy attractive they find him attractive. They think they are attracted to looks but not really just a well groomed man is the key component of looks. It happens on a subconscious level more so for a woman as opposed to a man is more logical and mind orientated I find. |
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I think most woman that suscribe to a date site lack comunication skills or they they've got no megabite to stay current up to date so if u did shout on ur voice...hi...hello...how are u etc no one is gonna reply... ok, you should well here! |
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oo. thanks for the heads up. it has been corrected. btw check if your last paragraph needs a 'some' implant.  I just got off a night shift and my brain has turned into sludge my IQ is that of a dead goldfish would you care to expand on this 'some' implant dear one 
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MrE, nice new haircut and duds. new job? Not so much new but door security you know, keeping the premises secure etc... I took that picture after I came home from my night shift the other day and the haircut is a weekly occurrence :) |
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oo. thanks for the heads up. it has been corrected. btw check if your last paragraph needs a 'some' implant. I just got off a night shift and my brain has turned into sludge my IQ is that of a dead goldfish would you care to expand on this 'some' implant dear one Oh my bad... EVERY SINGLE WOMAN ON PLANET EARTH AND IN THIS ENTIRE 3D EXPERIENTIAL REALITY ALL, NOT A SINGLE ONE LEFT OUT THINK..... 
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well now its more clear. Hey don't take that tone with me young lady.. you know I meant not all women.
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Well, if a someone visits ur page, u write, and they do not reply, I cannot tell u what they "want", but i can say, u surely do not have what they "want." I am putting "want" in quotes cuz many times ppl don't know what they really want: just what they need. In any case, they do not want u. Happens 2 all! Its internet dating.
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Edited by
new2area2012
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Sun 04/20/14 12:27 PM
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Well, if a someone visits ur page, u write, and they do not reply, I cannot tell u what they "want", but i can say, u surely do not have what they "want." I am putting "want" in quotes cuz many times ppl don't know what they really want: just what they need. In any case, they do not want u. Happens 2 all! Its internet dating.  Well said.. however.. Some not all know. I know what I want.. Look at my profile.. It is plainly stated. As far as MrE89UK, he just needs to grow up some. |
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Edited by
MrE89UK
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Sun 04/20/14 12:32 PM
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Well, if a someone visits ur page, u write, and they do not reply, I cannot tell u what they "want", but i can say, u surely do not have what they "want." I am putting "want" in quotes cuz many times ppl don't know what they really want: just what they need. In any case, they do not want u. Happens 2 all! Its internet dating. Well said.. however.. Some not all know. I know what I want.. Look at my profile.. It is plainly stated. As far as MrE89UK, he just needs to grow up some. Aww thanks mom wait till I get old as dirt then maybe I can spoon feed some youngn's my pearls of wisdom. |
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Edited by
dreamerana
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Sun 04/20/14 10:23 PM
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Ok.. here is the question...what women want when they try to sign up such a dating sites.... I was consistent perusing them but they wont reply.. whats in that... do they really want to search a mate or just surfing around..if so why the help they do it.. or they wont have anything to do? Harish, I read your original post and then checked out your profile. My first question is what do you want? Your profile tells me nothing about you other than that you are frustrated with women. Might want to consider rewording that. The second thing is that you say you have messaged people and they don't respond but you're not specific about what you write them or what age group they are. Speaking for myself, when I get messages from a young guy where I could be his mother, I don't respond. If it's from people closer to my age and all it says is hi, I check out their profile and if it looks interesting, I might message them back by asking a couple of questions based on their profile that might get a conversation going. Those are just a couple of ideas. Wish you the best. |
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Ok.. here is the question...what women want when they try to sign up such a dating sites.... I was consistent perusing them but they wont reply.. whats in that... do they really want to search a mate or just surfing around..if so why the help they do it.. or they wont have anything to do? the day us men figure out what women want,the world will blow up |
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Ok.. here is the question...what women want when they try to sign up such a dating sites.... I was consistent perusing them but they wont reply.. whats in that... do they really want to search a mate or just surfing around..if so why the help they do it.. or they wont have anything to do? the day us men figure out what women want,the world will blow up See that's why we women keep a little mystery. We would hate to be responsible for the destruction of the world. |
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Ok.. here is the question...what women want when they try to sign up such a dating sites.... I was consistent perusing them but they wont reply.. whats in that... do they really want to search a mate or just surfing around..if so why the help they do it.. or they wont have anything to do? the day us men figure out what women want,the world will blow up See that is a notion that has been propagated through the ages to divide men and women in my opinion. As you will know we are all men and women with our female and masculine aspects in the same body. Tap into your feminine side more so to learn what it is generally most women prefer. This whole mystery of ohhhhhhhhhh what women want it's so hard isn't actually completely true. Men make it harder by saying this ... oh excuse me SOME men. All women are different anyway some want other things some want another thing. My thing is just be the best you can be at any given time and know the correct girl will love you and like you for who you are no matter what and will come when the time is right. But you must behave like that person in your imagination that appeals to the girl you desire at every given moment! |
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