Topic: I am afraid of dating
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Thu 04/10/14 09:12 AM
I am afraid of dating.

Too many rules. Too much complexity.

It's all a game.

Playing hide and seek until we are 'found'

And when we are found, we become insecure because we are afraid our nakedness has made us vulnerable.

Lust and sex has replaced companionship and friendship.

What are we looking for? Do we really need 'someone' to make us happy?

I am tired. I am afraid of dating.

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Thu 04/10/14 09:16 AM
Plus, girls have cooties.

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Thu 04/10/14 09:18 AM

Plus, girls have cooties.



lol

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Thu 04/10/14 09:34 AM
.. I'm afraid of tight spaces..hmm..

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Thu 04/10/14 09:36 AM
Erm, yeah. You're on a actual dating site. You might wanna delete your profile then, if you're this worried. As it would be a waste of time staying.

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Thu 04/10/14 09:44 AM

Erm, yeah. You're on a actual dating site. You might wanna delete your profile then, if you're this worried. As it would be a waste of time staying.


lol, i was gunna ask why he's here then...

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Thu 04/10/14 09:44 AM

Erm, yeah. You're on a actual dating site. You might wanna delete your profile then, if you're this worried. As it would be a waste of time staying.


True, true. I'm afraid of dating but addicted to dating sites.

Oh! The irony!

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Thu 04/10/14 09:44 AM
Everyone is fearful, everyone is insecure. I went out with a model once, she was beautiful, articulate, sexy, educated and a friggin' mess. They stuff like- "oh, that snake/spider, etc is more afraid of you than you are of it"; once you realize that, its not scary. Except for the cooties

 Maria195's photo
Thu 04/10/14 10:18 AM

I am afraid of dating.

Too many rules. Too much complexity.

It's all a game.

Playing hide and seek until we are 'found'

And when we are found, we become insecure because we are afraid our nakedness has made us vulnerable.

Lust and sex has replaced companionship and friendship.

What are we looking for? Do we really need 'someone' to make us happy?

I am tired. I am afraid of dating.




Well if they play games with you...just play along with them. Life is too short, enjoy and play safe is all you can do now a days I guess.

Because is not perfect woman/men out there.

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Thu 04/10/14 10:18 AM


I am afraid of dating.

Too many rules. Too much complexity.

It's all a game.

Playing hide and seek until we are 'found'

And when we are found, we become insecure because we are afraid our nakedness has made us vulnerable.

Lust and sex has replaced companionship and friendship.

What are we looking for? Do we really need 'someone' to make us happy?

I am tired. I am afraid of dating.




Well if they play games with you...just play along with them. Life is too short, enjoy and play safe is all you can do now a days I guess.

Because is not perfect woman/men out there.


Best advice so far.

Thanks a bunch.

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Thu 04/10/14 10:18 AM

Everyone is fearful, everyone is insecure. I went out with a model once, she was beautiful, articulate, sexy, educated and a friggin' mess. They stuff like- "oh, that snake/spider, etc is more afraid of you than you are of it"; once you realize that, its not scary. Except for the cooties


True

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Thu 04/10/14 10:23 AM



I am afraid of dating.

Too many rules. Too much complexity.

It's all a game.

Playing hide and seek until we are 'found'

And when we are found, we become insecure because we are afraid our nakedness has made us vulnerable.

Lust and sex has replaced companionship and friendship.

What are we looking for? Do we really need 'someone' to make us happy?

I am tired. I am afraid of dating.




Well if they play games with you...just play along with them. Life is too short, enjoy and play safe is all you can do now a days I guess.

Because is not perfect woman/men out there.


Best advice so far.

Thanks a bunch.



You're welcome! flowerforyou best wishes.

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Thu 04/10/14 11:32 AM
Me too but u only live once so u gotta chase fear and live to the fullest u can message me if u like ladies only

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Thu 04/10/14 04:47 PM





True, true. I'm afraid of dating but addicted to dating sites.

Oh! The irony!


It isn't irony, it is a sign of the times. Welcome to "1984". Everybody eating their feel good pills and a whole generation or two who spend so much time on "social media" that they have become the epitome of antisocial. A world of people who would rather type "dirty talk" and exchange naked pictures on a phone or computer while masturbating than form an actual relationship with another person.

Keep your digital sex (happy two puns in one!). I prefer live intercourse, both social and sexual. As a matter of fact, I don't really like this form of interaction, but it sure beats meeting drunken women in beer joints. And if you try and strike up a conversation you are going to be beaten out by their interest in their smart phone. IRONY is that they may be chatting on mingle2!



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Thu 04/10/14 07:42 PM

Plus, girls have cooties.


And there ya Go!
drinker

The whole dating thing got way out of hand when the created laws and us fellas had to put our clubs away.

frustrated

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Thu 04/10/14 09:21 PM

I am afraid of dating.

Too many rules. Too much complexity.

It's all a game.

Playing hide and seek until we are 'found'

And when we are found, we become insecure because we are afraid our nakedness has made us vulnerable.

Lust and sex has replaced companionship and friendship.

What are we looking for? Do we really need 'someone' to make us happy?

I am tired. I am afraid of dating.


you've come here from craigslist haven't you?

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Fri 04/11/14 02:59 AM


I am afraid of dating.

Too many rules. Too much complexity.

It's all a game.

Playing hide and seek until we are 'found'

And when we are found, we become insecure because we are afraid our nakedness has made us vulnerable.

Lust and sex has replaced companionship and friendship.

What are we looking for? Do we really need 'someone' to make us happy?

I am tired. I am afraid of dating.


you've come here from craigslist haven't you?


Actually, no.

Did you migrate from craigslist?

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Fri 04/11/14 03:00 AM






True, true. I'm afraid of dating but addicted to dating sites.

Oh! The irony!


It isn't irony, it is a sign of the times. Welcome to "1984". Everybody eating their feel good pills and a whole generation or two who spend so much time on "social media" that they have become the epitome of antisocial. A world of people who would rather type "dirty talk" and exchange naked pictures on a phone or computer while masturbating than form an actual relationship with another person.

Keep your digital sex (happy two puns in one!). I prefer live intercourse, both social and sexual. As a matter of fact, I don't really like this form of interaction, but it sure beats meeting drunken women in beer joints. And if you try and strike up a conversation you are going to be beaten out by their interest in their smart phone. IRONY is that they may be chatting on mingle2!






Spot on!

Ever since technology offered to make our social lives easier, we have been on a downward spiral of confusion and detachment from reality. I fear what the year 2084 will look like.