i m a 21yr old guy!
was in a serious relationship for the past three years!!
but the girl ditched me and married another guy( probably coz he is rich)
any suggestions to recover form it??
thanks in advance

You have to keep yourself busy. Occupy your mind on some other things rather than thinking that girl who ditched you. (and revenge is not a good thing too) just live your life.. It's not the end of the world anyway.. There are lots of fish in the ocean. lol! you're still young though!

.. the universe provides you with what you need..
.. you obviously did not need her.
.. the universe provides you with what you need.
. she obviously needed something else... who are we to question the universe.. just accept it... it is life you live you love you die... not a lot of room in there..
.. for self pity...

first step...stop trying to rationalize it. finding something to blame it on will only drive you crazy. instead accept the outcome for what it is.

you have to come to the realization that no matter what you think/feel, she felt something else and figured she would be better off with someone else. it is not about what you did or didn't do, it is about what she wanted for herself. in the end it is what motivates people to make the choices they make.

next...take some time to get over it. this way you carry less baggage into your new chapter. whatever that will be. doing this will also keep you from holding what happened to you against any other women you meet. remember, everyone is different and deserves to be judged on their own merits, not on your past relationships.

and finally...(in the future) love like you have never been hurt.

Watch a bunch of Adam Sandler flicks. He's got breaking up down to a tee.

Going to school helps... makes you feel better about yourself

havin' a wild night at the titty-bar always seems to ease my pain...

Its okay dude..**** happens..
Instead of focusing on that stuff , focus on your career and make ur parents proud.

Lol
This was the same thing I use to do and think when I had my break up and guess what ???
It still helps

mingle!!!

not really no....keep getting to know others and the right girl will magically, or not so magically appear. It was not meant to be grasshopper

Dude go buy a vette, it will keep your mined off off her and you never know what my pull up to you at the next light.
note: i said a vette. not a pinto. LOL

It's tough when you're left wondering what happened and why it didn't work out. My personal opinion is that if you dump somebody, you do owe them a proper explanation or closure or something but it's not always possible. The sad fact of the matter is that no matter how good it may have been at some point or other, they don't really care about that because they're moving on and don't see any point in looking back.

ah Pikachu you just need some more electricity. There's always a rebound girl somewhere.

Keep working one day you will be the rich guy.

shrug it off...you'll meet her replacement sooner or later. besides, who wants to date a woman that is all into rich dudes? spend your energy and time on a woman that is into you. and don't eff it up next time.