Topic: What reasons would make you ignore someone's message in min
dreamerana's photo
Sun 04/06/14 04:15 PM
When someone's first message compliments things that have nothing to do with your profile you know they are making things up right off the bat. I want to start off with honesty. Like when someone tells me you're so smart and so kind. I could be but that's not anything on my profile so what makes you think that?

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Sun 04/06/14 04:15 PM

###### 10. " you are going to go on Skype now and sex chat with me" ewwwwwwwww. being a perv is out for me.

Damn it, that's just blown my next question out the water:wink:

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Sun 04/06/14 04:16 PM

Just got a message a few minutes ago from someone who was born and raised in Oregon, lists himself as White Caucasian but writes like someone from another country and not one where English is the predominant language. This is common among some scammers so I delete and block them. Making me a favorite without knowing me is another turnoff. To me that should be something which is decided later with time.


I do the exact same thing Missy flowerforyou


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Sun 04/06/14 04:17 PM

###### 10.....being a perv is out for me.


well, there goes that idea! grumble

Crys876's photo
Sun 04/06/14 04:35 PM
YES the 1001 pervs here for sex only!
If you want sex so badly why not go buy it?

no1phD's photo
Sun 04/06/14 04:41 PM
Edited by no1phD on Sun 04/06/14 04:41 PM
.. for me.. if I'm not already talking to you on the forums... r if you're not from my home city..
.. then what's the point... cheap phone sex.... wait a minute.. back the bus up... isn't that the whole point of this... cheap phone sex... dang I knew I was doing something wrong....lmsaolaugh

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Sun 04/06/14 04:58 PM

Just got a message a few minutes ago from someone who was born and raised in Oregon, lists himself as White Caucasian but writes like someone from another country and not one where English is the predominant language. This is common among some scammers


This happened to me just yesterday. His profile said he was from the UK, but he sounded foriegn when I read his profile. And when I looked again, he'd changed his ethnicity from middle-eastern to caucasian. Hope he makes his mind up about which he wants to be, because as far as I know, I'm staying well away from him. laugh

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 04/06/14 05:03 PM
Another one I don't like, is when some men are too forward, and are like "Hi baby" or "Hi dear". Don't call me those names if I don't know you. I'm not yours.

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Sun 04/06/14 05:06 PM
Edited by BrandNewJourney on Sun 04/06/14 05:07 PM

Another one I don't like, is when some men are too forward, and are like "Hi baby" or "Hi dear". Don't call me those names if I don't know you. I'm not yours.


OH!! That is an immediate black list for me. You don't know me! What gives you the privilege of calling me any of that? Even edited my profile to mention this!!!!

technovative's photo
Sun 04/06/14 06:15 PM

Delete.. Deny.. Decline .. Now if only there was a filter for receiving messages . Someone nudges you .. Nudge not returned. So they send you a kiss.. Kiss not returned. Somehow this is a prompt to send a message. Out of frustration .. Message returned clearly stating not interested. And there it is .. another message .. Unbelievable . Do men just not get it


Most likely these men aren't "getting it", might explain their persistence. :wink:

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Sun 04/06/14 06:26 PM

1. not reading my profile
2. asking me where i live (hence not reading my pf)
3. different culture
4.different country
5. too old or young
6. wrong sex
7. very demanding
8. also adds me as a fav
9. sounds desperate

that's all i got right now lol
waving :thumbsup: this

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Sun 04/06/14 06:30 PM
.. hi sweetie^^
. I would really like to get to know you better... where do you live.. we have different cultural backgrounds..
I don't know where your country is.
.. I look younger than my pic..
. what sex are you.
I really want you to answer that now..
I'm going to add you as my fave right away.
.. please message me please don't make me wait.. I. will wait by my computer all night..
...laugh flowerforyou

technovative's photo
Sun 04/06/14 06:34 PM

Techno do you have that problem..


Nah, it's no problem, I'm used to doing without. Wait I was in stealth mode while stalking you, right... what Yeah I'm good :thumbsup: JK

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Sun 04/06/14 06:38 PM


Techno do you have that problem..


Nah, it's no problem, I'm used to doing without. Wait I was in stealth mode while stalking you, right... what Yeah I'm good :thumbsup: JK
rofl rofl so much for stealth lol:tongue: laugh

technovative's photo
Sun 04/06/14 07:20 PM



Techno do you have that problem..


Nah, it's no problem, I'm used to doing without. Wait I was in stealth mode while stalking you, right... what Yeah I'm good :thumbsup: JK
rofl rofl so much for stealth lol:tongue: laugh


Yeah, can't seem to keep my inner voice from speaking through my fingertips. ohwell laugh

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Sun 04/06/14 07:25 PM




Techno do you have that problem..


Nah, it's no problem, I'm used to doing without. Wait I was in stealth mode while stalking you, right... what Yeah I'm good :thumbsup: JK
rofl rofl so much for stealth lol:tongue: laugh


Yeah, can't seem to keep my inner voice from speaking through my fingertips. ohwell laugh


same hereflowerforyou

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Sun 04/06/14 07:32 PM


.. hi sweetie^^
. I would really like to get to know you better... where do you live.. we have different cultural backgrounds..
I don't know where your country is.
.. I look younger than my pic..
. what sex are you.
I really want you to answer that now..
I'm going to add you as my fave right away.
.. please message me please don't make me wait.. I. will wait by my computer all night..
...laugh flowerforyou
laughing ..dam I forgot to ask you something no1. . What sex are you
..
.. what sex am I... I'm .. smexy... of course.
.. of course of course of course.. to smexy.
. I'm too sexy for my body body body.. I'm too sexy for my body body body.. but I'm not too smexy.. 4.. U....ohhh....:-*..

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 04/06/14 07:33 PM

just wondering what circumstances would make you ignore a guy/girl's message after getting their mail for tha first time


Why not ignore it? Nobody is required or obligated to reply to a message sent by a complete stranger.

A better question would be, "What circumstances would prompt you to reply to a message sent by a complete stranger?"

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Mon 04/07/14 09:17 AM
I don't get many messages, so I actually respond. Usually just to get no response back. So, sometimes if you respond back with some substance, they won't bother ya anymore. At least has been my experience.

cococabeza's photo
Mon 04/07/14 09:53 AM
I ignore those that call me baby or such in the first email..just to name one reason.