Topic: Wondering..
Ted E's photo
Sat 04/05/14 04:53 AM
1 year, almost 100 messages, and only 3 replies.. wondering whether the girls are here for making friendship or showing off!!

Ted E's photo
Sun 04/06/14 01:17 AM
not at all.. i send full length messages trying to interact or request for making friendship... messages are seen, but no reply comes from them...

LovingDiva's photo
Sun 04/06/14 01:24 AM
oops

Astrid's photo
Sun 04/06/14 01:48 AM
It's really hard to connect here..like invisible...sad2

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Sun 04/06/14 08:25 AM

not at all.. i send full length messages trying to interact or request for making friendship... messages are seen, but no reply comes from them...


It means they're not interested, try changing the way you send messages, don't send form letters, but find something you have in common with them from their profiles.

Another thing to remember is females generally get more messages than males, so many of them could be looking for that one message that really stands out.

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Sun 04/06/14 08:34 AM
Mostly just means that they're not interested. Well my thoughts anyways.

Good luck!

Ted E's photo
Sun 04/06/14 09:52 AM

If youre only looking for friendship, maybe they dont want to waste their time, if they are looking for something else.

or are you only messaging gals who want friendship?


I message depending on the status... If the girls want friendship, i just offer them a friendship, otherwise a hangout proposal of some kind....

Ted E's photo
Sun 04/06/14 09:52 AM

Mostly just means that they're not interested. Well my thoughts anyways.

Good luck!


Ya, i am also starting to think that way... lets hope for the best and keep the spirits high!!

dreamerana's photo
Sun 04/06/14 06:15 PM
I think many of us, guys or women, May not have an easy time getting to know people. Even if it's just online.

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Sun 04/06/14 06:23 PM

not at all.. i send full length messages trying to interact or request for making friendship... messages are seen, but no reply comes from them...


are you sending messages to people in your local area? I know some people delete messages from foreign countries. I do unless it is related to the forums somehow

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 04/06/14 07:49 PM

1 year, almost 100 messages, and only 3 replies.. wondering whether the girls are here for making friendship or showing off!!


Nobody is required or obligated to reply to a message sent by a complete stranger.

Women aren't doing anything wrong by not sending replies to your messages.

Indeed, if you sent 100 messages and received only 3 replies, then it is likely that you are making some kind of mistake.