There is a growing trend in America with younger men dating older women. This makes some people angry for reasons I don't understand. I mean think about it, men have been dating younger women for centuries so what is the big deal when women date younger men. People try to justify these unions making statements like; he is just looking for a mother. I don't think this is true. I think that most men my age are just looking for a woman is mature and knows what she wants in life, and in bed. My female friend tells me that women have a self life which means upon reaching a certain age, men stop wanting them, UNLESS OF COURSE THEY ARE REALLY HOT!!! Some men are just tired of games while other men do not care as long as they have a woman they can show off. What do you guys think.

I actually have a legitimate question about this topic. I'm 47 - I get a lot of messages from younger guys, and I don't know if they're just messing with me, or if they're serious. I have no problem being in a relationship with a younger man, but are younger guys actually looking for a relationship with a mature woman?

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Well some are and some are just looking for a MILF. It is up to you and your experience being a woman to be able to tell by talking with this man. You can tell if a guy is interested in being in a relationship by the conversation. Many Cougars limit themselves or have doubts because they don't believe that a younger man can be attracted to them. Typically cougars will immediately reject a cub due to what society has labeled a taboo. Give the guy a chance before you shoot him down, There are mature men out there waiting to be found.