I think it's almost time to give up. I find at this age everyone is set in their ways and living I'm in their x's
Shadows. Is anyone else feeling that way? Sad

Time heals most wounds.. some choose to speed up healing with a little polysporin.. so to speak... some choose to watch the wound slowly heal.

I can relate to what you are saying.....also hardly any guy wants to travel more than a few miles even if you offer to meet them half way. Not many local guys on here where I live. I am finding it hard to find a travel partner. Did you ever travel with girl friends... emphasis on friends now!

No not in my situation. I give every opportunity for a Good Relationship, with enough rope for either knot to be tied" Love Knot or Hangman Noose!" Its up to you which you prefer to use in Life, And me to wait and see!

Yes I travel my sister. I just wish guys would enjoy more then the sex.

Yeah, a bit. But hey, there are younger women.

Yes that's what I said but some more mature women are full of life and adventure

I'm moving at a snail's pace on dating but that's just me....

You shouldn't give up, though.
It's when we stop looking that we find the one

Until that time... Have fun, girl!
Travel, hang out on Mingle, party on ladies nights at the pub!!
This is what I do, you can make up your own plans

Exactly!! You are only young once as we all have been"on the outside" now we are young on the inside and smarter upstairs"brain" just live for yourself and it just may happen for you and if it doesn't welllllllllllll "LIVE FOR TODAY,TOMORROW IS ONLY A GIFT"never a promise!

Age is but a number.Most would consider a factor more relevant.

Best of luck to you!! Now wait until you are in say 40/50/60 and see if what you say works then!!Welcome to SCHOOL!!

Thanks for your input but it's mostly youmger good looking men that show interest,so being younger doesn,t enter into it.....

I'm looking for my true love

hi

hope I can be

It's math, I think.

As we go through life, experiencing various things (or not) we change. Mainly, we discover what we do and don't enjoy.

The natural result of that, is the each of us becomes even more unique than we were to begin with.

When we are very young, we may get the sense that there are thousands of potential ideal matches available to us. But as we go through our little individual adventures, we discover that a lot of the people who seemed so wonderful, were not our cup of tea in one way or another, or that we weren't theirs.

The "shadow" effect you describe, is just one of the factors that shapes people. You might imagine the "shadow of their exes" in another way: it is really the echo of their disappointments, at not finding the childhood dream of Happily Ever After.

All that just means that, although there are almost as many people out there for us to try to make a go of things with, as there always was, that a much smaller percentage of them appear viable to us now.

Math.

You can take it as a reason to give up if you like, or decide to accept it as the reason for the greater amount of work and patience it requires to keep trying.

Oh before living in their Ex-s shadow .. they were living in the shadow of their mom and dad .. if they had them.

Come out of a family who are dysfunctional, addicts and have relationship problems.

Guess what ... son or daughter ... they gonna be dysfunctional addicts with relationship problems.

If you look in the mirror and find out this fits your profile ... you can fix you up.

Then .. maybe ... you can find someone who fixed themselves up.

Until then ... go play ... have a good time instead of snivel about it.

Just be careful as there are a lot of sick people out there.

sumbuddie wear blind sea

Some people in our society has made girls to lose faith in right guy

not living in my ex's shadow cos it's already a past..... moving on is what i'm living for...