why do some people speak what is on th mind openly,while others hide
from th truth behind th mask they call "Th ALPHA" and
not speak th mind at all?

yes it dose somtimes

Genetics WILL

Because some people are shy and others are afraid that if they speak the
truth some one will get hurt and they don't want that. But what they
need to realize is that sooner or later the truth will always find it's
way out and yes sometimes it hurts some times it's bad other times it
may lead to great things but always the truth is simply the truth no
matter what happens.

you said it "Mitch",th truth is what it is,and cannot be any less than
th truth,but my point was,why do they hide from,or shut folks out before
they know th truth?... M.

i can't say for sure michael, but i have seen alot of people who do this
outa fear, and some times that fear is have to face themselves.

agreed mitch,,,but why do they shut folks out before they know th truth
about them?th full truth,th whole truth,replies?...

well said michael and mitch i agree

it just seems to me that most people that deny the truth already know
what the truth is. i think it would be better to take the sting of the
truth and have it last a short time than to deal with the pain of denial
for a lifetime.

it all comes down to acceptance of having flaws.

I only tell a lie when the truth don't work.
LOL

Michael- i think the reason that people shut others out before they know
the whole truth is because they long to have friends and relationships,
as some one who does have a past that i don't want everyone to know it
is the way i feel but i don't shut people out i just wait until the time
is right, how ever even at the people that i have told about these
things there has only been one that did not run. Don't get me wrong i do
not hide the truth about myself but the truth is very hard and most of
the time impossible for others to deal with but if they really are
interested in me then after a while i will tell them.

thanx "Mitch",,,I feel and act th same way...M.

no problem, by the way it's a good topic i personaly would have liked to
have seen more responces