do you belief that continuous repetition and expression of your love will finally make someone who avoids you closer to you?

NO

No

.. yeah that will work.. if you want them putting a restraining order on you..lol..

Does Ghana even have restraining orders?

If you really want her, email her 10 times a day, show up at her job every day for lunch, follow her home and blow up her phone.

Isn't that what stalkers are hoping for?

There are a few mentality types who require constant doting but usually that's to fulfill attention issues or it's to cater to an ego issue. The underlying thing is that someone is requiring you to revolve a world around them when that's not actually functional or emotionally safe. The "I need constant attention", "Obsessives" and the "Princess" mentalities are usually notorious for wanting this. (It helps them cover for their own imbalances so it enables them to stay the same with validation coming from you.)

Otherwise...
Most other people find that to be stalkerish and messed up. It's basically forcing your deal on them to conform to what you want no matter how you justify the reasoning or presentation. Quite honestly it's basic attempted brainwashing and can also be indicative of control issues when you run things like that. If you want to tell someone you like then, go ahead. If you're going to keep doing it to wear them down you're trying to break them down to submit. No matter how you cut it that's a force based thing, impatient and it's selfish.


If you're doing this (I honestly dunno if you are or not but I'll cover the base anyway), ask yourself and be real with yourself on the reasoning, if you're trying to convince someone to like you the same way back based on some ideal or some kind of movie based concept (that doesn't apply to the actual world) to validate yourself. Doing this actually shows you're keeping your wants and desires above their feelings which isn't love at all. It's usually a product of lack of emotional growth. (Particularly by way of general understanding and honoring the feelings of another individual as secondary to your own.)

No it will run them off.

Do you enjoy it when your little brother or sister shows up at every event you go to? Do you enjoy it when they are constantly pestering you? my guess is not, so unless you want to seem like the annoying little brother that won't go away....I'd say walk away

Only if you're a hot stud like me.

I was that annoying little brother.

That one comment(ph0nyx) was incredibly insightful.