hi my names travis i signed up to this website too hopefully find a woman to have a relationship maybe evan married one day but finding it hard i dont understand what im doing wrong i workout regulary to keep fit and helthy try to be a nice guy aswell for example a girl that i really like and was dating on valentimes she told me before that she hasnt ever got anything from anyone so me being me i fort id make it speacal for her she likes to bake so i got her these custom made cakes big bunch of roses and a card with a time and date of a resturant i setup a resivastion for trying to be romantic so i went expecting her to turn up she didnt turn up and rang me the day after valentimes to tell that she did want any of the stuff that i got her and didnt want to date me anymore my first fort was wtf i mean i fort that all woman like to be made to feel speacal on occastion :-\ so can some please give me some advice on ehat im doing wrong :-(

Hi Travis
I just don't know whats wrong with people these days. Your concerns are quite common . You are not the only one and I highly doubt that therrs something wrong with you or anything you did. I'm trying to figure this out in my life as well..seems I get more emails when i say im not looking..kinda sux...am sure they dont just want my friendship lol. Well they aint getting anything more haha

Btw good luck on mingle. There is a new forum called matchmaker. Matchmaker ...try it out..maybe you will find your match

thankyou yur really kind il keep in mind waht u say really appreatice just finding it hard u know :-\ and yer i get them sort of messages too but not intrested in that and u too :-) and i will thanks :-)

:) All the above! Sometimes you will go through alot of spoiled apples to get to the right one! Best of luck mate! Cheers!

. yes Travis bad apple. keep taking them off the tree though. you're bound to find a good one.. forget about her and move on.. some women just get. overwhelmed by the thought of commitment.. keep doing what you're doing. PS. don't give women fatty cakes.. sends the wrong message.lol

haha thanks everyone for being supportive if u ever need some advice or someone to talk to u all know where i am on here :-) and haha dont worry the cakes where low fat but i like woman with curves anyway lol cant date a stick :-)

Travis- you did everything right. She just wasnt the girl for you
Dont stop being who you are. Someday, someone will love you for you ♡

nicely said sweet

thankyou sweet2sarcasm appreatice the kind words and hope so i hate being single feel like missing out on sharing my life with somone