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Topic: Bored in relationship!
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Wed 02/26/14 12:36 PM
I'm looking for a non judgmental fwb. If interested, hit me up!!

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Wed 02/26/14 12:36 PM
whats fwb?

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Wed 02/26/14 12:51 PM
FWB +Friends With Benefits (So basically a "hook up buddies" scenario where you are just people willing to handle each other carnally.)

and,

From what I gathered from the topic post and the initial intro line/comment for the topic...
If you're "bored in a relationship" and you want a "FWB situation", you may as well be real about it and ask people if they want to cheat with you/help you cheat. It's basically what you're doing.
Otherwise if you're not looking to be open, real and maybe try to fix things in the relationship then get out of the relationship and be real about things for everyone involved. All are free to do what they want to that way and also you don't needlessly psychologically and emotionally mess anyone up in the process. If what you're in isn't right for you the worst thing you can do is stay in it. Whether it be for the set up or for the appearances or whatever that you're caught up on, it's selfish and jacked up because you're using everything around you to cater to you not having to change.

Oh, In the future, "Nonjudgemental" doesn't mean "Will not care about being a potential 3rd party in a cheating situation I'm looking to start and perpetuate". The word you're looking for is "apathetic" (doesn't care) and it would be in regard to enabling you to use them for carnal needs because you won't leave your relationship for whatever reason you're not looking to leave it.

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Wed 02/26/14 12:55 PM

FWB +Friends With Benefits (So basically a "hook up buddies" scenario where you are just people willing to handle each other carnally.)

and,

From what I gathered from the topic post and the initial intro line/comment for the topic...
If you're "bored in a relationship" and you want a "FWB situation", you may as well be real about it and ask people if they want to cheat with you/help you cheat. It's basically what you're doing.
Otherwise if you're not looking to be open, real and maybe try to fix things in the relationship then get out of the relationship and be real about things for everyone involved. All are free to do what they want to that way and also you don't needlessly psychologically and emotionally mess anyone up in the process. If what you're in isn't right for you the worst thing you can do is stay in it. Whether it be for the set up or for the appearances or whatever that you're caught up on, it's selfish and jacked up because you're using everything around you to cater to you not having to change.

Oh, In the future, "Nonjudgemental" doesn't mean "Will not care about being a potential 3rd party in a cheating situation I'm looking to start and perpetuate". The word you're looking for is "apathetic" (doesn't care) and it would be in regard to enabling you to use them for carnal needs because you won't leave your relationship for whatever reason you're not looking to leave it.



i see, kind of a chickenchit way of doing things... to bad some guys are to scared of just saying goodbye, but would rather cheat...

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Wed 02/26/14 01:00 PM
Oh, In the future, "Nonjudgemental" doesn't mean "Will not care about being a potential 3rd party in a cheating situation I'm looking to start and perpetuate". The word you're looking for is "apathetic" (doesn't care) ...


I would add that the word "deprived" doesn't mean "I'm not getting all that I lust for."

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Wed 02/26/14 01:03 PM


FWB +Friends With Benefits (So basically a "hook up buddies" scenario where you are just people willing to handle each other carnally.)

and,

From what I gathered from the topic post and the initial intro line/comment for the topic...
If you're "bored in a relationship" and you want a "FWB situation", you may as well be real about it and ask people if they want to cheat with you/help you cheat. It's basically what you're doing.
Otherwise if you're not looking to be open, real and maybe try to fix things in the relationship then get out of the relationship and be real about things for everyone involved. All are free to do what they want to that way and also you don't needlessly psychologically and emotionally mess anyone up in the process. If what you're in isn't right for you the worst thing you can do is stay in it. Whether it be for the set up or for the appearances or whatever that you're caught up on, it's selfish and jacked up because you're using everything around you to cater to you not having to change.

Oh, In the future, "Nonjudgemental" doesn't mean "Will not care about being a potential 3rd party in a cheating situation I'm looking to start and perpetuate". The word you're looking for is "apathetic" (doesn't care) and it would be in regard to enabling you to use them for carnal needs because you won't leave your relationship for whatever reason you're not looking to leave it.



i see, kind of a chickenchit way of doing things... to bad some guys are to scared of just saying goodbye, but would rather cheat...



agreed..leave me first...please.
It is a puzzy way of doing things.

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Wed 02/26/14 01:03 PM
Edited by no1phD on Wed 02/26/14 01:04 PM
okay you don't want a fwb.. you want what we call is a call girl..fwb.. are just for single people.. who.don't want commitment we just want to have fun.. lovers.. I take her out for dinner we sleep together once twice a week... no top drawer for her.. and no hanger for me.. easy peasy. your little bit sleazy...jk..

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Wed 02/26/14 01:04 PM
But welcome to Mingle anyways.

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Wed 02/26/14 01:05 PM

I'm looking for a non judgmental fwb. If interested, hit me up!!

You deserve a woman, the inflatable kind, I'm sure Rosey (or whatever name you give her) won't judge you

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Wed 02/26/14 01:08 PM


I'm looking for a non judgmental fwb. If interested, hit me up!!

You deserve a woman, the inflatable kind, I'm sure Rosey (or whatever name you give her) won't judge you


the hands never judge... or talk back... or say no... and it's not cheating...
hmmm...
sounding better and better now...ohwell

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Wed 02/26/14 01:10 PM
Thanks;) there's a whole bunch of no it alls on this I'm noticing!

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Wed 02/26/14 01:12 PM

Thanks;) there's a whole bunch of no it alls on this I'm noticing!

you're welcome, there's one or two a-s holes on here too.

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Wed 02/26/14 01:12 PM
oh thanks.. but we don't know it all..

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Wed 02/26/14 01:13 PM

Thanks;) there's a whole bunch of no it alls on this I'm noticing!




It is spelled...KNOW it all's.

#cheater.

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Wed 02/26/14 01:14 PM

Thanks;) there's a whole bunch of no it alls on this I'm noticing!


thanks for noticing...drinker

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Wed 02/26/14 01:15 PM


Thanks;) there's a whole bunch of no it alls on this I'm noticing!


thanks for noticing...drinker

:wink:

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Wed 02/26/14 01:15 PM


Thanks;) there's a whole bunch of no it alls on this I'm noticing!




It is spelled...KNOW it all's.

#cheater.


damn it Henry...laugh laugh laugh

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Wed 02/26/14 01:16 PM

Thanks;) there's a whole bunch of no it alls on this I'm noticing!


Actually, there are a bunch of members who are giving honest replies to you original post in this thread.

You are more than welcome to be here, but keep in mind that others don't have to agree with what you are attempting to do.

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Wed 02/26/14 01:18 PM
speaking of noticing things, did you notice that your on a dating site where most of the people on here have been cheated on at one time or another?

maybe try adult friend finder, or iwantsexnow.com to be a cheat, most people here don't like it...

just a friendly reminder..

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Wed 02/26/14 01:22 PM


Thanks;) there's a whole bunch of no it alls on this I'm noticing!

you're welcome, there's one or two a-s holes on here too.


One or two? Who's the second one?surprised

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